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Started by CursedFireDean, February 10, 2013, 06:12:17 PM

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CursedFireDean

So I went with my mom to Target today with the sole purpose of buying some more underwear. While we were there, my mom decided to get some groceries as well and she had an all-day 5% off coupon.
So we got up to the register and she payed for her stuff first and used the coupon, then when I got there, with my MEN'S underwear, she handed the coupon to the guy and said 'SHE'S using this coupon too.'

Thanks mom
thanks a lot for that

I don't think he really listened to her though, just took the coupon. So nothing awkward came up... but come on... don't call your kid a 'she' when he's getting men's underwear. Not cool.





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Alice-blossom

When I get far enough into my transition that I need to start buying bras (etc.), I've decided that it won't be with my mother.  :-\
I don't know how I could handle the awkwardness, let alone any comments she would make about it to the cashier. lol
It's cool that you unabashedly bought underwear in her company anyways, so kudos. :3
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Devin87

Yes!  I don't know why I still go shopping with my mother, but I'm just so desperate to get out of the house that I constantly offer to go with her.  I swear, when we're in stores, she feels the need to use my birth name (which hasn't been my legal name for almost a year now) before and after every word she says to me.  And I pass really well, so when she does, I get the weirdest looks.  And then there's the fact that every time we go somewhere, she runs into at least one old friend, to whom she introduces me as "you remember my daughter, *birth name*" which usually gets a completely shocked and confused look and an "ohhhhh..."  It's gotten to the point I go with her and then lose her as quickly as possible.  Or if she sees someone she knows, I disappear.  And if she uses my birth name, I pretend she's not talking to me.  It's ridiculous.
In between the lines there's a lot of obscurity.
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geek

While I was waiting on my first binder to get here in the mail, I had to go sports bra shopping with my dad, I never do anything with my dad lol, it was very awkward for both of us, so I feel your pain!




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Kevin Peña

Um, men's or women's underwear, I would never buy undergarments with my mom!  :laugh:
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Darth_Taco

My mom did the same thing to me the other day, and at Target too xD. She didn't mean it though, she just slipped up.
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CursedFireDean

Quote from: Darth_Taco on February 10, 2013, 07:50:18 PM
My mom did the same thing to me the other day, and at Target too xD. She didn't mean it though, she just slipped up.
Yeah, I think she just wasn't thinking :-\

Quote from: Alice-blossom on February 10, 2013, 06:45:44 PM
When I get far enough into my transition that I need to start buying bras (etc.), I've decided that it won't be with my mother.  :-\
I don't know how I could handle the awkwardness, let alone any comments she would make about it to the cashier. lol
It's cool that you unabashedly bought underwear in her company anyways, so kudos. :3
She just lets me buy whatever clothes I want with my clothing money, and I'm usually pretty open with my parents anyways. They just say if that's what I want to spend my money on, then that's my choice. Glad they're so accepting  :)

Quote from: Geek on February 10, 2013, 07:23:25 PM
While I was waiting on my first binder to get here in the mail, I had to go sports bra shopping with my dad, I never do anything with my dad lol, it was very awkward for both of us, so I feel your pain!
I remember doing that once XD never again- so awkward.





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kelly_aus

Quote from: CursedFire on February 10, 2013, 06:12:17 PM
I don't think he really listened to her though, just took the coupon. So nothing awkward came up... but come on... don't call your kid a 'she' when he's getting men's underwear. Not cool.

He could also be used to lesbians buying mens underwear.. I was with a bunch on Saturday night and I was the only girl in the room not wearing mens underwear..
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Liminal Stranger

Every. Freaking. Time. I. Go. Anywhere. She. Does. This.
[/Shatner]

I swear, she does it to make me feel bad. My dad does it out of habit and just plain oversight (and unwillingness to just accept that this isn't caused by some organic issue), but she does it out of spite. But either way...feels bad man. I feel your pain.




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AdamMLP

My only underwear buying experience - I only have 11 pairs - involved picking up the boxers and practically running to a self service machine thing. I don't even know why I was nervous because I generally pass.
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sneakersjay

My ex is the king of this.  Standing in a busy parking lot for the kid exchange/hand off, he will say loudly, Tell MOM about XYZ!!

Of course they are strangers and won't assume he's talking about me, but still.  Why do people get so hung up on that MOM label?!

How about, why don't you tell JAY about XYZ?


Jay


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Kevin Peña

Quote from: AlexanderC on February 11, 2013, 05:11:42 AM
I only have 11 pairs

ONLY 11 pairs? What? I'm sure that's more than enough. Just make sure you don't buy any future ones with you parents. Heck, I would never buy underwear with anyone. If I ever do start wearing underwear, I would probably buy a pair of Hello Kitty panties, and no one but me and my SO need to know that.  :P
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Jeatyn

My sister that I no longer speak to used to feel the need to "explain" me to every random saleperson we encountered while we were out, it drove me up the wall.

"my sister will carry the bags, wait I mean my brother, he...she...it...whatever will carry the bags, hahaha she used to be my sister but now she's my brother, anyway, give the bags to her"

It's like what the hell xD merely pointing at me when the bags were being handed over would have sufficed, you're just making this exchange awkward for everyone in earshot.
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Kevin Peña

Quote from: Jeatyn on February 11, 2013, 03:14:39 PM
"my sister will carry the bags, wait I mean my brother, he...she...it...whatever will carry the bags, hahaha she used to be my sister but now she's my brother, anyway, give the bags to her"

I'm sorry, but your sister is mean. She calls you "she" and "my brother"? Crazy.  ???
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Alice-blossom

Quote from: DianaP on February 11, 2013, 03:05:25 PM
ONLY 11 pairs? What? I'm sure that's more than enough. Just make sure you don't buy any future ones with you parents. Heck, I would never buy underwear with anyone. If I ever do start wearing underwear, I would probably buy a pair of Hello Kitty panties, and no one but me and my SO need to know that.  :P

I would not deign to buy or wear women's underwear while even just living with my mother. She says she is supportive, but I'd rather avoid testing her limits with anything awkward. I do plan on moving out soon, which is nice but a bit scary! (The though of living alone isn't a happy one.)
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AdamMLP

Quote from: DianaP on February 11, 2013, 03:05:25 PM
ONLY 11 pairs? What? I'm sure that's more than enough. Just make sure you don't buy any future ones with you parents. Heck, I would never buy underwear with anyone. If I ever do start wearing underwear, I would probably buy a pair of Hello Kitty panties, and no one but me and my SO need to know that.  :P

Not enough when you have no heating in your house so things take years to dry and you have to sneak around your parents to wash them haha. Yesterday I spent an hour wearing soggy boxers because I got caught and told to watch TV on my way to my room.
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Kevin Peña

Quote from: AlexanderC on February 11, 2013, 04:21:13 PM
Not enough when you have no heating in your house so things take years to dry

Well, make sure you squeeze them out really well and then you can put them in the oven on "warm."  :)
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AdamMLP

Quote from: DianaP on February 11, 2013, 04:34:33 PM
Well, make sure you squeeze them out really well and then you can put them in the oven on "warm."  :)

OVEN?! Oh god no. I messed up cooking three different things today - one to the point the dog couldn't manage to eat it - so I'm not risking my boxers with my culinary skills!
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Devin87

Quote from: AlexanderC on February 11, 2013, 04:21:13 PM
Not enough when you have no heating in your house so things take years to dry and you have to sneak around your parents to wash them haha. Yesterday I spent an hour wearing soggy boxers because I got caught and told to watch TV on my way to my room.

Haha.  You gotta start washing them when you hit pair 10...
In between the lines there's a lot of obscurity.
I'm not inclined to resign to maturity.
If it's alright, then you're all wrong.
Why bounce around to the same damn song?
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sneakersjay

Quote from: Jeatyn on February 11, 2013, 03:14:39 PM
My sister that I no longer speak to used to feel the need to "explain" me to every random saleperson we encountered while we were out, it drove me up the wall.

"my sister will carry the bags, wait I mean my brother, he...she...it...whatever will carry the bags, hahaha she used to be my sister but now she's my brother, anyway, give the bags to her"

It's like what the hell xD merely pointing at me when the bags were being handed over would have sufficed, you're just making this exchange awkward for everyone in earshot.

That sucks.  I was shopping with my mother once and took my bags and her bags.  When she was finished paying, she looked for her bags, and the cashier said, he took them, and pointed to me.  It took her aback, because afterwards she kept saying that he had paid me a compliment by calling me *he*. Um, no, Mom, you're the only one who still sees me as female and can't let go.


Jay


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