Quote from: Miss Bungle on July 09, 2013, 12:08:22 AM
Having known women that could fix their own car and also played video games, I never saw those two things as being very masculine. The former was due to people being sick and tired of having to depend on those whom were undependable and the latter was just something to do.
Well, I agree. Like I said its something I lost myself in to "try" to appear male. Never worked out so well lol. The whole video game thing inherently was a double edged sword, it put me into some kind of fantasy realm when I wasn't working, so I did not have to face how I felt, in an attempt to thinking it was better for me since it was what was wanted of me; if that makes sence. I know plenty of female friends that can do either, and very well. One of my best friends who passed away was a mechanic, and why this amtters or not, a lesbian, and a best friend on many many many levels. I learned how to work on cars to a certain limited extent from her. I would just overtly seek out what is generally on the masculine spectrum as a "cover my identity" type thing. :/ hope that clarifies.
anyhow, if you want to talk further on it, feel free to pm me doll
that way we aren't pulling from the main topic and all :p
