tHalo to all. today my father misunderstood his intermittent if any impact on my life or his conception of how it was meant to be..... the thing is that most fathers have a preconceived concept of the son..... that comes from their farther . it seems to lack the pure of ur my figure and yet in my case it shouldn't matter since it is so removed from us both, yet it means alot to us both.......hurumph