My first post/ need to vent

[AdifahDerzi]

Hi all
I transitioneed in 2000 had bilateral orchiectomy in 2011.
Live off SSI/SSDI so thats all I can get.
My problems are with society lol.
And whats bugging me tonight is my sister et al.
She goes around outing me to everyone. She even before Christmas had a guy "defend", her when I confronted her on some things.
She isnt a problem now per se its just her viewing me and telling her kid and friends  Im really a guy.
And she wonders why I avoid her. I am 34 and transitioned FULLY at 21
Im most definitly no longer a man or guy. Smdh Ive talked to her shown her things and I think she has slowly started to come around but am I wasting my time?
Thanks everyone...

[mintra]

That's disrespectful. If it were me, I would talk to her nicely that I don't appreciate her outing me to people. If she still does that afterwards I'd totally avoid her completely.

[JoanneB]

Most of the members of my TG group have or had ver long term problems with family members dealing with their life choices. Your sister's behavour is much like another's sister. Outright hurtfull, if not dangerous, by telling about everyone she could about her freak brother. Partly in response to some minor percieved slight. Mostly out of not agreeing at all and downright against transitioning.

[StellaB]

If it were my sister I'd just put it down to jealousy that she's unable to have a brain transplant.

[Shantel]

If she persists you'll have to chalk her up as a toxic relation and put her out of your life. I had to do the same with my sis and mother for a ten year period until they finally showed contrite hearts and changed their attitudes toward me.

[AdifahDerzi]

Thanks everyone for your replies. I agree she though 28 isnt the most mature person smh