I have an appointment with the Director of HR at my new job that should be awesome but is right now the bane of my financial existence on Tuesday.
Short of the situation is, well here's some quotes from the e-mails I was sending to my recruiter before I took the job because I was very extremely worried about losing the medical coverage I needed.
Quote from: Me
I've not had to manage health care between jobs before so I'm covering new ground for me.
Quote from: Employer
I think we should give Paige the |snip| website and she can start researching the specific providers she is looking for in-network.
Quote from: Me
I was given a moment to look and found both clinics I was looking for on the |snip| website. I was only concerned about my therapist...
In the e-mail chain that was the core of the discussion. Now on Tuesday I find:
Quote from: Employee Handbook Under the Coverage Exemption Section
... Treatment for non-congenital ... gender dysphoria...
And it goes on to very precisely cut out
everything we'd need item by item.
I know what non-congenital means in English but what the heck does "non-congenital" really
mean as it pertains to me rectifying the sizable pay cut I've ended up taking because of the explosion in my out of pocket medical expenses? For want of a better phrase if I can argue to the Director of HR that I was in fact "born this way", I may have a shot. But any ideas on how I can argue this would be appreciated.
I have an ally coming with me. Together we're going to be talking about this and the non-coverage of Domestic Partners. Apparently, round here it's so common the guy I'm going in with never even thought to ask!
From my seat, all they had to do was send me the exclusion list. That's it. I don't think a cis person would have been offended by that. I said I cared about my therapist. They KNEW! They KNEW what they were setting me up for! (The intensity is coming off stronger in my keyboard than I actually feel. I feel more panicked than anything and have for days. It's exhausting.)
I just want some peace and to introduce some stability into my life.
Any ideas, please send em' on my way.