So, I hope everyone can follow along but I'll try to keep it short.
My name is Tobias. That's not my birth name but I'd like to think it is. For a long time, I've always fought within myself issues stemming with my gender and how I actually look. I would go through fits of wanting to scream in frustration and just accepting things as they were. I eventually decided to pursue only lesbian relationships since I could dress as a guy and be the "butch" while still being stealth about my feelings and issues. (I also lean more toward girls anyway.) Then I met my now spouse, a man by birth but a woman inside. Though neither of us were open about this and so we went on with our lives. We had a son together and have struggled to make ends meet since.
After some time, marital issue became more pronounced and we started getting more frustrated with ourselves. (Though neither of us knew why.) While we were living in different towns (for job reasons), we came out to one another in the same conversation. We spilled our guts out and we became closer again as we now understood why we were not able to be closer to one another. Since then, my now-wife plans to change her name to Cassandra and has been dressing/acting as a woman now. I have pretty much continued with my androgynous dressing style and have my wife now call me by my new name when no one else we know is around. (She's more open about her status than I am.)
So that brings us to this, I'm a FTM transsexual and my wife is a MTF transsexual and we have one child together. I'm here to learn more about things and become more educated in trans* matters. I hope that my stay here is long and welcome. Thank you everyone.
