Things I HATE about being a girl...

[vegie271]

I'm roughly 5'4" and 100lbs. Tiny bones, too. If someone decides to be violent against me, I'd probably be screwed in most situations, regardless of any training I'd have. The one advantage of being this small, though, is that the groin isn't too hard to punch if my attacker is 6' tall!

I'll probably have to make a habit of carrying a knife around, but I live in a pretty peaceful area, so it hasn't been a huge concern for the present.

As a woman I now carry a stun gun and I hate that I have to do this

as man I ever even had to consider my safety even at night, now I can't go out at night, I am only 5' 4" 130  very vulnerable

[Nicole]

I love sport, always have and always will.

Give me a good game of football and a race at the horse races over a day shopping anyday.

[JennX]

And one more thing I hate about being a girl... I have to remove my makeup everyday at the end of the day... I'm too lazy... I just wanna sleep! >_<

It's 10:10PM EST... and I still have mine on after finishing a 15 mile bike ride. Need to take care of that asap. 

Right after the end of the Tampa Rays / Miami Marlins game. 

Big baseball fan here.

[kariann330]

I agree on the sports thing, minus 3 Gun competitions, most sports seem to all be the same to me....oooo he is running with a ball...oooo he scored, now we go the othe way!!!! Yeah no lol. At least hockey occasionally has someone getting punched in the face but it's still the same all in all. Now 3 gun is a fun sport.....running full tilt and shooting targets.

[Tristan]

I agree about the creepy guy thing. That's one thing about being a girl that I really hate. But that's why I like mace and my taser. If a guy does not understand no means no I soy them like my dad said too

[vegie271]

I don't worry about it. I'm 5'5" ish and not the slimmest chick around. (I've actually seen friggin teenage girls that are taller than I am.) but I don't worry about myself when I am out and about. I could take care of myself if the situation arose. It hasn't happened yet and I hope that it never does BUT the poor idiot that actually attempts to do anything to me is going to regret it.

You said THIS in response to me carrying a stun gun, the reason I bought the stun gun I because I was raped and beaten within an inch of my life by a man who was exactly my size But Men have the advantage of being men.

I ended up spending 12 hours unconscious in the hospital before then recovering in the hospital and then coming home to try and report the crime to the police only to have them make a joke of the whole thing.

[A]

Seriously, I've never seen or heard of such risks that would require carrying a weapon... This is going to sound stupid, but do you need to do something special to put yourself at risk like that? Like, I dunno, walking alone, almost naked, in the middle of the night, in a scary back alley, and throwing insults at dangerous-looking people? oo' I'm not trying to say everyone is being careless or anything; I just want to illustrate how little danger I feel, and understand where that danger (or at the very least perceived danger) everyone on this forum seems to feel comes from.

[vegie271]

Seriously, I've never seen or heard of such risks that would require carrying a weapon... This is going to sound stupid, but do you need to do something special to put yourself at risk like that? Like, I dunno, walking alone, almost naked, in the middle of the night, in a scary back alley, and throwing insults at dangerous-looking people? oo' I'm not trying to say everyone is being careless or anything; I just want to illustrate how little danger I feel, and understand where that danger (or at the very least perceived danger) everyone on this forum seems to feel comes from.

DID YOU NOT READ WHAT I SAID? I WAS RAPED! IN THE MIDDLE OF THE DAY! it  was 12:30 in the afternoon on a sunday. I was 1 and 1/2 blocks away from home walking towards the store. Minding my own business when this man walked up to me and started talking to me, he puts his hand around my shoulder, then the next thing I know, my shorts are being torn off and he sees that I am not  cis gendered and he starts beating the tar out of me!

BESIDES when does anyone have the right to attack a woman EVER in any situation!. Is the rape culture a good thing?







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[ZoeM]

DID YOU NOT READ WHAT I SAID? I WAS RAPED! IN THE MIDDLE OF THE DAY! it  was 12:30 in the afternoon on a sunday. I was 1 and 1/2 blocks away from home walking towards the store. Minding my own business when this man walked up to me and started talking to me, he puts his hand around my shoulder, then the next thing I know, my shorts are being torn off and he sees that I am not  cis gendered and he starts beating the tar out of me!

BESIDES when does anyone have the right to attack a woman EVER in any situation!. Is the rape culture a good thing?

Nobody has the right. And no rapist cares. The culture isn't so much the issue as that some men are sick puppies. I say, any amount of retribution we can give - whether it be mace, taser, or bullets - is well deserved by these champions of the phrase 'vile disgusting scurvy dog'.

*cough* Pardon the language. I don't generally use sailor speech. *cough*









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[Tristan]

Yeah that's true. Safer to go out now as we are. Woman . But I def don't like that about being a woman that some guys feel the need to try and take things from us just because we dress a little sexy or just because they feel they can. Don't like the not being on the same strength level as the guys since the hold so much strength over us.

[ZoeM]

I have to say, guys are starting to scare me. Most of them have ample power to overpower me if they wanted to, and you never know who might be a bad egg. That combination is scary, and I've started looking over my shoulder in parking lots.

[Sarah Louise]

Always being aware of your surroundings is good, being paranoid is bad.

If you spend too much time looking around and over your shoulder, you will bring attention to yourself and give the idea you are vulnerable.

[vegie271]

I wasn't responding to you at all. I didn't even read your post and I have idea who you are. There is no need for you to get angry with me.

My apologies then just a trigger

[kira21 ♡♡♡]

I just want to illustrate how little danger I feel, and understand where that danger (or at the very least perceived danger) everyone on this forum seems to feel comes from.

You don't have to do anything special, just be in the wrong place at the wrong time. If you seriously don't feel danger or understand where it comes from, then you are either incredibly lucky in where you live, or really really need to take more care. When something happens to you, you realise that you have to watch out. I think most of us live in places where that stuff happens fairly regularly, but I suppose others might not. Incidence of violent attacks against trans folk is a lot higher and so I feel much more vulnerable when I am out. 

Firstly women gain a lot more attention on the street and there is a good chance that there can be problems when they realise that they are directing their attention to a MTF.

Is it a legitimate fear? Well, the fact being attacked by a gang of men has happened to me before, tells me it is. I don't even think that I live in a particularly bad area. But I don't know that many places that people don't get attacked, stabbed, killed and stuff; anywhere. I know some people who have never had it happen to them though and so they assume it doesn't and don't look for danger and take suitable action.

Just be safe.

[Lyric]

I've never really liked the female fashion trend of not wearing any socks or hosiery. I mean, many shoes are fairly uncomfortable when it's just your foot against the inside of the shoe. I find myself cheating and sneaking socks under my boots and high tops a lot.

~ Lyric ~

[Joanna Dark]

I never wear socks with the main pair of shoes I wear. They would look silly with socks or pretty much anything. They are these cheeky flats from X-appeal.

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[Rosa]

Being scared more.  I have to worry about my safety.

Being dominated.  Ok it's good in the bedroom,  but outside of that people shouldn't grab my arm when you want me to stay,  or physically move me around or give me orders.

I agree!

[Joanna Dark]

Presenting male I felt very uncomfortable and unsafe. Just walking to the store in a pretty rich, low-crime county where I used to live I once had an empty bottle thrown at me from a car (they missed at least...) and another time some guys honked and yelled ->-bleeped-<-got.

I think part of it is that I used to be an easy target for guys, now they're kinda intimidated by me or at most they're neutral cause they treat women like children.

Yeah I think I feel a lot more safe and ironically get a lot less weird looks. I don't know if I have ever been targeted for it though I have been beat up several times but it's hard to say if it wasn't just because I am so small and a target. I think suburbs can be a lot worse then cities because people tend to be a lot more nosey and bored. In a city, it's so hectic people don't care as much and have better things to do. Plus cities tend to be more socially liberal.

Omg yeah >_< Those kinds of guys HATE gay people, and hate feminine gay people even more. It's less dangerous to present as female instead of male in front of them, *if* they perceive you as just like any other girl. So far that's been the case for me, and I'm guessing it has been for you as well.

They do. I used to ask myself why they hate me so much. I thought I would be like hated exponentially more now but it is the most anti-climatic experience of my life lol and I get treated so much better.

[Devlyn]

I have edited several instances of profanity, and moved some more concealed weapons posts to the proper thread. (Hunting/Shooting) Please do not continue the weapons discussion in this thread. Thank you, hugs, Devlyn