Quote from: Debbie55 on May 29, 2013, 03:14:32 AM
The haters are going to hate, what's the alternative, hide, keep quiet? we wont get anywhere that way. The Blacks went through it, the gays went trough it, the hate is the strongest when they are loosing the argument. But the more people exposed to the idea that crossing gender lines is no big deal, then that is a step in the right direction and eventually the mainstream will become desensitised and bored and the haters will finally shut up when they no longer have the ear of the majority.
Plus, children can be quite persuasive in changing parents ideas
Most of the time the haters aren't even the majority...it's just that the people in between ignoring the hate and propagating it...well they usually choose to spread the hate first because it makes then feel good.
The mentality goes something like "If I'm suffering, all of you freaks should have to suffer as well!".
Could we not make collectives out of groups, eg. The Blacks, The Gays, The Jews, Etc.
It dehumanizes groups of people when you lump them all together as an amorphous blob under one label...that would be like calling us "The Transgenders".
No, It's gay people, transgender people, black people, Jewish people...etc.
Other than that...what your saying will eventually happen...it's just our responsibility as transgender people to keep educating people by being out and talking a little bit about it. If you can't be out for safety reasons...that's understandable. But there is no way were going to break the stereotypes if we are invisible. I am in no way saying that you have to tell every person you meet "Im Transgender", just if the opportunity arises.