Oh, we do not have those "big girl" lasers here, so there are not many options for me

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I was brave enough to try other spots on my face yesterday - with EMLA and ice packs afterwards. I have to say, it gets better with each time - I think I should be able to use the next setting after a month. I cant see any visual burns - there are some small red marks here and there and skin is more sensitive like "deep inside" - I cant describe this but I am sure You know what I mean. My chest took 5th setting and I just barely winced couple of times - the hair is not so thick there anyway.
In my opinion, the reason why they say in the manual that it should not be used on a man's face is also, because guys would not shave their face properly, would not apply any numbing and such - and burning their actual hairs would cause the skin damage. Whereas, if You shave along the skin, maybe pluck out the density a bit at some spots - it can be done and it can be done safely!