*Sigh* When people make an argument of something that shouldn't be an argument.
I live with some very... Uptight people, and that's not to say I'm not one of them.
But still, I've gotten called a selfish brat since I was five, and it's making me sick to hear it.
I don't want to get angry over something I consider a one-sided and silly argument, but it's still a pain in the arse when people call you selfish for not wanting to go on vacation with them. I'm fine with you going, and my not going shouldn't hinder that, especially when I've made it clear for months that I don't want to go. I haven't yelled, I haven't called people names, and I've tried to state my feelings clearly and plainly. Instead, they latch onto one of the points that can be easily argued with and try to make me back down with that, and I can see them doing it, but am too afraid of potential yelling to bring it up.
I hate to say this for people who shouldn't matter to me, but it does hurt when they try to make you do something, even something so small as going on their vacation, when you've made it clear you don't want to; they don't seem to listen and don't seem to be flexible at all, then make it an argument when they don't get their way (which I'm only adding to, I realize), which makes me worry for other things.
*Shakes head* I'm slightly ashamed for feeling this is something to post about.
