What made you unhappy today? v3.0

[Danielle Emmalee]

and devlyn

[Danielle Emmalee]

And I'm trying VERY hard not to get myself banned for what I want to say on the Could I Pass As Female thread....

[Devlyn]

Yeah, because trans-elitism sucks.

[Amelia Pond]

Leave it to the mods, it will get taken care of.

[Danielle Emmalee]

Obviously people aren't getting the point....after 2 moderator interventions within what....less than a day...

[Devlyn]

It won't feel any less unwelcoming because a mod takes care of it.

[Amelia Pond]

It won't feel any less unwelcoming because a mod takes care of it.

I know it won't, some people have their heads lodged somewhere very dark. That doesn't mean that you should stoop to their level though.

[Devlyn]

I don't mind stoolstooping.

[Danielle Emmalee]

I should have just said what I wanted....I got a smite anyways

[Natalia]

Finding that the price of a decent psicologist with good knowledge of gender disphoria here in São Paulo will make me sell my kidneys! One appointment is R$ 700 (1 US$ = R$ 2.33), more than US$ 300!

I am crazy, but I really need to hear something from a better doctor, so *cries*

[Amelia Pond]

You have exceeded the limit of 20 personal messages per hour.

^ This 

[Lauren5]

Finding that the price of a decent psicologist with good knowledge of gender disphoria here in São Paulo will make me sell my kidneys! One appointment is R$ 700 (1 US$ = R$ 2.33), more than US$ 300!

I am crazy, but I really need to hear something from a better doctor, so *cries*

No insurance?

[Megumi]

Empty the fake T jar and fill it with cold cream, then she can see you are using it all she wants.

I say fake because no script= no T, cream or otherwise.

I showed it to my therapist today. She said it was most likely a topical testosterone cream just like I thought. This was also a first for her as no other patient has had something like this haopen before. We both laughed at the absurdity of the whole situation. At least the session  gave me something to work with from this point forward.

[Devlyn]

I should have just said what I wanted....I got a smite anyways

Well, I gave you an applaud here to make up for it, and I think it would be nice if others did. Hugs, Devlyn

[Ltl89]

I should have just said what I wanted....I got a smite anyways

Don't be sad.  Others saw what happened and realize that it wasn't fair for you to get that smite.  You always do your best to create an inclusive and welcoming atmosphere for everyone here.  If some don't appreciate that, it's not a fault of yours.  And remember, we all make mistakes and let our emotions get the best of us at times, so let's hope any personal disputes can be resolved peacefully and all the involved parties can come out as friends. 

[King Malachite]

My gta v online keeps timing out.  Even when I'm in, hardly no one wants to play missions. :/

[Ltl89]

Two things make me unhappy today.

1)  I can't get the nerve to come out to any of my co-workers.  Even though they all seem to know something is going on, I just can't seem to out myself.  There is one person that I'd like to tell, because I can't see her being mean about it, but it's just too hard.  I'm a coward.

2)  I have a Human Rights Campaign bumper sticker that I'd like to put on my car, but again, I'm too afraid that it will out me.  Despite all my support for the lgbt community and belief in equality for all, I can't even put on a damn bumper sticker because I'm that much of a coward.  For letting down my ideals, I'm angry and disappointed with myself.  Why do I have to be such a chicken?

[Sephirah]

Two things make me unhappy today.

1)  I can't get the nerve to come out to any of my co-workers.  Even though they all seem to know something is going on, I just can't seem to out myself.  There is one person that I'd like to tell, because I can't see her being mean about it, but it's just too hard.  I'm a coward.

2)  I have a Human Rights Campaign bumper sticker that I'd like to put on my car, but again, I'm too afraid that it will out me.  Despite all my support for the lgbt community and belief in equality for all, I can't even put on a damn bumper sticker because I'm that much of a coward.  For letting down my ideals, I'm angry and disappointed with myself.  Why do I have to be such a chicken?

Identifying your fear is the first step to overcoming it. Knowing that something needs work is a step forward.

Don't be so hard on yourself. I think what you're scared of is doing something you can't undo. Of losing control of your situation and something which you've kept a handle on up until now being dependant on the unpredictability of others. That's a big thing, for anyone.

You will get there, hon. *hugs* You're not a coward. You're just not ready yet. You will be.

[Lauren5]

Career tests give vague answers or make you pay to see the top results. Grrr, I just want to know what I should think about doing!

[MadeleineG]

From the looks of it, we've lost a handful of people, today. 

As unhappy as I about the petty infighting in the "Pass?" thread, I'm every bit as saddened by the departures it seems to have caused. Sorry to sound naive, but "Why can't we all just get along?"