I know many people who socially transitioned without any medical intervention. If anyone tells you you can't/shouldn't, take that with a grain of salt. You're entitled to transition in whichever way is truest to yourself.
I did a lot of showing myself as a woman before I started hormones. I didn't pass well, but I didn't do everything possible, just the easy stuff. I used a wig, face makeup to cover beard shadow, breast forms, and conventional forms of hair removal.
Of course passing is NOT a requirement for transitioning. I know many women who don't pass but who nonetheless are very happy with their transitions. Don't let anyone tell you it's all about passing. It doesn't have to be.
Not sure what else you're looking for, Kye. Does this help?