i dont know what to do

[berserkk]

i am a FTM,i has a girlfriend for half a year and she saw me as a guy and i was attracted to girls all my life.but in the last months i being attracted(sexualy and romantic) to one of my friends in school and he is a boy..when i moved to that school everybody accepted me very good they recognized me as a guy from the beginning and i just told them that i have vagina and i am transgender,and i dont want to "ruin my manhood" or somthing like that with sexual relationship with another boy if they going to think that i am not serious about being a guy or somthing like that..

someone her (FTM) has sexual relationship with another guy? how other people reacted to that? they saw you as less manly or somthing like that?...

[Crow]

I've had relationships with both guys and girls. The only people who've made a big deal about it have been people who weren't accepting of me in the first place. There are lots of trans guys who are gay/bi/pansexual-- it doesn't make you weird or less manly. Do what makes you happy!

[Jamie D]

We must remember to never confuse sexual orientation with gender identity.

I think many transpeople are open to bisexuality and pansexuality.  I know that I am - bigendered and bisexual

[Mosaic dude]

I've been in a relationship with another man for the past 10 years.  People who know me don't doubt my manliness.  People who don't accept me can [CENSORED].  Be yourself, and be happy.

[Cindy]

Same comment, never confuse sex with gender.

There is a massive spectrum of gender identification and on top of that a a completely new spectrum of sexuality.

You are a perfectly normal guy, enjoy your life!!

Cindy

[Edge]

someone her (FTM) has sexual relationship with another guy? how other people reacted to that? they saw you as less manly or somthing like that?...

I have had relationships with guys in the past. People used to assume I was only into to guys, but now I think most of the people I hang out with don't assume anything. Not that they've told me anyway. As for whether it makes anyone see me as less manly, not among the people I hang out with. I worried a bit that it would make me less manly for awhile, but then I realized I had a bit of internalized homophobia probably due to the way gay people are often portrayed in media and that my doubts had no basis in reality.

[berserkk]

thnx for the support, i hope that i will have the courage to do somthing with my attraction to him