The best compliment ever!!

[bethany]

Today when I logged on there was a new private message waiting for me. While this is normal but what it said was totally unexpected. I normally would not share a private message but this was extra special.

Can I just say you look really female lol I thought you must be a pre transition ftm!

Like I said in a past post "No more guy mode for this girl."

[Beth Andrea]

Today when I logged on there was a new private message waiting for me. While this is normal but what it said was totally unexpected. I normally would not share a private message but this was extra special.

Like I said in a past post "No more guy mode for this girl."

I've thought the same thing when looking at your avatar...but didn't think to say anything. 

[bethany]

Aww thank you Beth.  Hugs 

[SaveMeJeebus]

I am slightly confused. They say you look like a female yet thought you were FtM 

[bethany]

I am slightly confused. They say you look like a female yet thought you were FtM 

A pre transition Female to Male. Meaning they thought I was born a girl.

[SaveMeJeebus]

A pre transition Female to Male. Meaning they thought I was born a girl.

Oh, right, i see 

[Amelia Pond]

Why do you still act so surprised at your progress? You're looking more and more beautiful every day.

Amy

[bethany]

Why do you still act so surprised at your progress? You're looking more and more beautiful every day.

Amy

Great question Amelia, I see it this way. I look in the mirror every day and while I see the subtle changes that have occurred, I still have people calling me by my birth name and using male pronouns. So I question how well I pass. Even though I have heard from total strangers who refereed to me using female pronouns.  Does that make any sense?

[King Malachite]

I've thought the same thing when looking at your avatar...but didn't think to say anything. 

Same here.  I really do love the new avatar.  You radiate the essence of womanhood and you look very vibrant and beautiful in it (that that you didn't look beautiful in your other pics-I just really like this one).

[Ltl89]

Congrats on your progress!

[bethany]

Congrats on your progress!

Same here.  I really do love the new avatar.  You radiate the essence of womanhood and you look very vibrant and beautiful in it (that that you didn't look beautiful in your other pics-I just really like this one).

Thank you LtL, Amelia, and Malachite, I really do appreciate the positive feedback. 

[Amelia Pond]

Great question Amelia, I see it this way. I look in the mirror every day and while I see the subtle changes that have occurred, I still have people calling me by my birth name and using male pronouns. So I question how well I pass. Even though I have heard from total strangers who refereed to me using female pronouns.  Does that make any sense?

Of course, I understand. Do you realize that you have a hard time just taking a compliment sometimes?

Amy

[bethany]

Of course, I understand. Do you realize that you have a hard time just taking a compliment sometimes?

Amy

No I didn't realize that thanks for pointing it out. LOL