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Do I Look, or Could I Pass, as Female?

Started by Jamie D, July 30, 2013, 05:23:37 PM

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stacey fisher

start hrt on july 11/7/2013 been living as fem for 15 months full time and changed name legal a year ago and med recs to fem started spironolactone 7/6/2014 just laying in bed after getting my surgery done on the 11/11/2015 feel so good
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stacey fisher

start hrt on july 11/7/2013 been living as fem for 15 months full time and changed name legal a year ago and med recs to fem started spironolactone 7/6/2014 just laying in bed after getting my surgery done on the 11/11/2015 feel so good
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Harlow

Quote from: kasihnya on September 26, 2013, 07:05:32 AM


I think this is the best picture of you, you look amazing in all of them though. You can see from the ones in the before HRT in jeans that you have already lost a lot of muscle mass. It's crazy looking at your before photo as a man and to think only 3 months you look so feminine already! Very exciting :)

As for full time I think that is up to you, at this point whatever you're comfortable with either way I think you look really good!


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Cassie 4 Ever!!!

Quote from: Harlow on September 29, 2013, 01:36:21 PM
I think this is the best picture of you, you look amazing in all of them though. You can see from the ones in the before HRT in jeans that you have already lost a lot of muscle mass. It's crazy looking at your before photo as a man and to think only 3 months you look so feminine already! Very exciting :)

As for full time I think that is up to you, at this point whatever you're comfortable with either way I think you look really good!

I agree with you about the photo, it is my favorite. As for full time, from what I have heard people say on here, and friends that I have talked to, I should lose a little more muscle mass. Halloween will be when I test the waters. These were the first photos I took with makeup since I started HRT, and when I compared them to the before pictures, I couldn't believe it myself, and it is my own body. I guess when you see yourself everyday, it is much harder to see the changes because they are so gradual.
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Skinny18

 I'm not MtF, but just wondering, can I pass with longer hairs and makeup? I'm not on HRT, not sure about it yet.





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Marina mtf

passing is a complex thing, face is only a part of it. Maybe not more than 30%.

Then there is voice (at least 40%), body language, style of expression, blending, mannerism.

imho, of course.

So it is very, very difficult, and at the same time useless, to tell you if you "pass" or if
you could pass, with only a photo of your face as a boy.

I can say that yes, you have a nice face and that with the CORRECT hair style, the CORRECT
make up, the CORRECT voice you would be a nice, pretty girl...

but now? Hard to tell.

Have you already tried to put on some female clothes? Also without going out? Are you
willing to test your female self?


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Shantel

Quote from: Skinny18 on October 01, 2013, 06:34:52 AM
I'm not MtF, but just wondering, can I pass with longer hairs and makeup? I'm not on HRT, not sure about it yet.



Appearance wise you could easily enough because you have rather delicate facial features to begin with, you have to give it time for the girlie stuff to work it's magic and it won't be rushed.
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Skinny18

Quote from: tmarina on October 01, 2013, 08:03:29 AM
passing is a complex thing, face is only a part of it. Maybe not more than 30%.

Then there is voice (at least 40%), body language, style of expression, blending, mannerism.

imho, of course.

So it is very, very difficult, and at the same time useless, to tell you if you "pass" or if
you could pass, with only a photo of your face as a boy.

I can say that yes, you have a nice face and that with the CORRECT hair style, the CORRECT
make up, the CORRECT voice you would be a nice, pretty girl...

but now? Hard to tell.

Have you already tried to put on some female clothes? Also without going out? Are you
willing to test your female self?
I've tried, but it was so long time ago I barely remember. I'm thinking to do it for some personal fun. Never will be brave enough to be on public as female and I don't want it. Just curious if my face can pass.

Quote from: Shantel on October 01, 2013, 08:13:14 AM
Appearance wise you could easily enough because you have rather delicate facial features to begin with, you have to give it time for the girlie stuff to work it's magic and it won't be rushed.
Thanks. I'll try some makeup when will have long hair. Should be lot of fun.
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Marina mtf

Quote from: Skinny18 on October 01, 2013, 12:12:40 PM
  I've tried, but it was so long time ago I barely remember. I'm thinking to do it for some personal fun. Never will be brave enough to be on public as female and I don't want it. Just curious if my face can pass.
Thanks. I'll try some makeup when will have long hair. Should be lot of fun.

sorry, but if you don't want to be public, why worry about "passing"?  :laugh:

just be yourself in the safe haven of your home and be happy...  O0


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Christine167

Skinny you have soft features which is good but there is a it of glare and you are tilting your head in a oblique profile which while great for killing facial rec applications also makes it a not so good picture.

I'd recommend finding your facial shape, pick a girly hair style based on said shape and shop eBay for a cheap wig or two and give it a test drive. You can find some nice cheap ones for around $20-$40 there. A little make up wouldn't hurt either and if you like andro then that might be your thing anyway. Trut me when I say that make up makes a huge difference in facial appearance.

Outside of that I think with what I can see of your body shape you would be cute in femme.
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Cassie 4 Ever!!!

I know that I am having an eyebrow malfunction, and I will fix that VERY soon. but here are some recent pics.


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Byron

Quote from: Ксениа on October 02, 2013, 09:10:52 AM
I know that I am having an eyebrow malfunction, and I will fix that VERY soon. but here are some recent pics.




Kasihnya, as I've said before, you are breathtaking.  It amazes me how there are some women who have the ability to bring elation and a sense of sadness all at the same time!  ;)

As a matter of curiosity, how did you choose the name Kasihnya?  It's such an unusual name.
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Cassie 4 Ever!!!

Quote from: Byron on October 02, 2013, 03:39:36 PM
Kasihnya, as I've said before, you are breathtaking.  It amazes me how there are some women who have the ability to bring elation and a sense of sadness all at the same time!  ;)

As a matter of curiosity, how did you choose the name Kasihnya?  It's such an unusual name.

Thank you again hon. :) This girl is never going to be sad in life. If I feel this great now, imagine a year, two, and more from now. I still see some masculine features that I don't like but it goes with the territory. But I can see that I am very fortunate with my body and facial structure.

I work with a lot of International on J-1 an H2B visas so I hear a lot of great names. I heard the name from that. It stuck, I spelled it how I like, but soon will change it probably to a more traditional Russian or Ukrainian spelling of Ksenia or Ксениа. My name means Wanderer. I love the way it sounds. I wanted a name that was far from my name, but had the same number of syllables. I have people who have  started calling me Kae, or Kasi now. :)
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Michaela J.

Hi guys, long-time lurker, first-time poster, all that stuff. I'm pre-everything, but given that I'm home alone all week, I'm pretty much living as I hope to do so soon enough. Got that first doctors appointment on Friday, which I'm seriously dreading, but I'm hoping all goes smoothly and I can come out to all the right people soon enough. :)

Anyway, do I have anything noticeably...uh...mannish about me? The hair's still growing and I'm only wearing the tiniest bit of lip gloss:

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V M

Hi Michaela J.  :)

You seem to have a good base to work from with a somewhat feminine face shape and build, I don't really see anything that awhile on HRT wouldn't remedy

I'd say that your chances are pretty good  :)
The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

Superficial fanny kissing friends are a dime a dozen, a TRUE FRIEND however is PRICELESS


- V M
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Cassie 4 Ever!!!

Quote from: Michaela J. on October 02, 2013, 04:54:16 PM
Hi guys, long-time lurker, first-time poster, all that stuff. I'm pre-everything, but given that I'm home alone all week, I'm pretty much living as I hope to do so soon enough. Got that first doctors appointment on Friday, which I'm seriously dreading, but I'm hoping all goes smoothly and I can come out to all the right people soon enough. :)

Anyway, do I have anything noticeably...uh...mannish about me? The hair's still growing and I'm only wearing the tiniest bit of lip gloss:



Hon, I think you have a better starting point than I do! I think you have a superb starting face. Lucky you! I remember when I was pre-HRT and I was searching high and low on the net for before and afters and I saw plenty of people, who I thought were really manly looking, morph and transform in-front of my eyes as the slides passed into these amazing beautiful women. I think...no I know you will be amazing. It wasn't too long ago that I was unsure!
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Kristal

Quote from: Ксениа on October 02, 2013, 09:10:52 AM
I know that I am having an eyebrow malfunction, and I will fix that VERY soon. but here are some recent pics.




Holy Hera, girl! You've got legs for days!
I'm not here to decorate your world.
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Cassie 4 Ever!!!

Quote from: Kristal on October 02, 2013, 06:53:19 PM
Holy Hera, girl! You've got legs for days!

A lot of my girlfriends are telling me they wish they had my legs. :) The heels make them look super long.
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Byron

Quote from: Ксениа on October 02, 2013, 03:51:13 PM
Thank you again hon. :) This girl is never going to be sad in life. If I feel this great now, imagine a year, two, and more from now. I still see some masculine features that I don't like but it goes with the territory. But I can see that I am very fortunate with my body and facial structure.

I work with a lot of International on J-1 an H2B visas so I hear a lot of great names. I heard the name from that. It stuck, I spelled it how I like, but soon will change it probably to a more traditional Russian or Ukrainian spelling of Ksenia or Ксениа. My name means Wanderer. I love the way it sounds. I wanted a name that was far from my name, but had the same number of syllables. I have people who have  started calling me Kae, or Kasi now. :)

Thanks for the explanation, that's a very interesting story on how you chose your name.  The Russians should be honored!

Oh, and when I mentioned sadness, I was actually thinking about it from my perspective.  A girl as pretty as you are is waaaay out of my league.  There's no sadness at all in those photos! ;)
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Danielle Emmalee

Quote from: Byron on October 02, 2013, 08:13:12 PM
Oh, and when I mentioned sadness, I was actually thinking about it from my perspective.  A girl as pretty as you are is waaaay out of my league.  There's no sadness at all in those photos! ;)

I know what you mean....
Discord, I'm howlin' at the moon
And sleepin' in the middle of a summer afternoon
Discord, whatever did we do
To make you take our world away?

Discord, are we your prey alone,
Or are we just a stepping stone for taking back the throne?
Discord, we won't take it anymore
So take your tyranny away!
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