Quote from: interalia on February 27, 2009, 09:52:01 AM
Being, potentially, the only Muslim here, I'm interested in your background, should you be willing to share it.
So feel free to answer any/none of these questions:
Were you born into the faith or did you convert?
Are you from a western or eastern nation?
How does your faith view your particular challenge?
OK!
I converted young when I was back in Italy 22 years ago. I was madly in love with an Iranian at the time, so all the "wrong" reasons but things happen in strange ways. As you can see I'm ethnically European.
Been married to a Yemeni Jew, a Jamaican Christian and lastly an Indonesian Muslim. All since I converted.
How does my faith view my "particular challenge"?
That's a very good question and one that has many answers. In Shia Islam transexuality is accepted due a Fatwa declared by the late Imam Khomeini. The reasons for that are interesting; a TS lady was stopped by his security when trying to meet him. Khomeini instructed them to let her in and she discussed her situation with him, he understood her plight and initiated what is now one of the most progressive attitudes towards transexuals in the world today. Of course Iran has an appalling record as regards homosexuality but that's another issue.
As regards Sunni Islam in my personal opinion there is no clear situation. The Quran condemns "sodomy" but not only regarding male homosexuals. There is nothing regarding transexuality therein so as far as I'm concerned it's between me and Allah. Only He can judge me.
I have many Muslim Lesbian and Gay friends and while the men do tend to follow cultural sexist tendencies the same cannot be said of the women.
Let me put things this way, I'm a firm believer in Ijtihad. This means that I personally believe that I interpret things to the best of my ability in regards to my own person.
At the end of the day let me put things this way, in my eyes it's better to be TS and Muslim than TS and not Muslim. It's better for a woman to pray with her hair uncovered than not pray at all and so on.
There's plenty of bigotry out there of course, last autumn we had mixed prayers at an LGBT Muslim conference led by a woman (my wife incidentally). Of all the Lesbian and Gay delegates only three joined us.
As you can see there is a long road ahead, but it is our duty to walk it not just for ourselves but for our brothers and sisters.
Hope that answered your questions