Homecoming??

[Brandon]

Well are schools homecoming dance is coming up, Know the only thing is, Is that most of my friends have a date and I don't want to be a third wheel, The problem is no girl I know would go with me atleast I don't think, I don't I guess it's kinda fustrating prom would be even worse for me because that's in may, An you really need a date then

[Darkie]

My senior prom I didn't have a date so a few of us just went together as a group and I had a blast.

[Devlyn]

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[Brandon]

My senior prom I didn't have a date so a few of us just went together as a group and I had a blast.

Well right know it's homecoming prom is not till may but I know most of my friends have a date for homecoming

[AdamMLP]

You shouldn't be getting a girl just because you want to show off with your mates at an event.  Just make a joke out of it and go with some people you actually want to be around.

[Brandon]

You shouldn't be getting a girl just because you want to show off with your mates at an event.  Just make a joke out of it and go with some people you actually want to be around.

No Ive wanted a date since my freshman year homecoming, I want a date because I'm tired of being the third wheel

[Brandon]

You will find someone eventually but you probably shouldn't be taking a girl just cause you don't want to be third wheel. Just go and have fun. If your friends really make you feel like a third wheel them maybe reevaluate that friendship. But yeah who says you gotta go anyway? It really isn't that big a deal. I went and I could have lived without. Anyway just wait until you find a girl who you enjoy being around and ask her.

Homecoming is fun to me, Being the third wheel kinda sucks bcause I'm tired of seeing my friend and his girlfriend caped up, Plus everyone wants me to go because I missed winterfest last year, And they play slow music sometimes

[Joe.]

Being the third wheel sucks, but it's not the end of the world. If you try and get a date just for the sake of not being the third wheel it isn't really fair on yourself or the girl. You'll just be lying to the both of you. I'm 18 and never had a date. You're still young, there's plenty of time for dates and the like. Go on your own and just have fun whilst you're young.

[DriftingCrow]

Why don't you just find a girl that you're friends with, who doesn't have a boyfriend, and ask her to go? I am sure there's girls out there in your school without a date that you get along with. Most girls aren't going to ask you, you have to ask them. No one is going to know that you're interested unless you ask.

And, if you can't find a girl, and you don't want to be a third wheel, you don't have to go to homecoming. (I never went to any of my school's homecoming dances. . . maybe it was because we had an awful football team. . .  I don't feel bad about not going now, and I didn't feel bad about not going then). For my junior prom, I went with a girl I was friend's with (we didn't go as a date, but because we were friends), and senior prom I went with a guy who I wasn't dating--it's more fun going with people who you're friends with instead of as a date.

[Brandon]

Being the third wheel sucks, but it's not the end of the world. If you try and get a date just for the sake of not being the third wheel it isn't really fair on yourself or the girl. You'll just be lying to the both of you. I'm 18 and never had a date. You're still young, there's plenty of time for dates and the like. Go on your own and just have fun whilst you're young.

Its not just that I also want a girlfriend

[Brandon]

Being the third wheel sucks, but it's not the end of the world. If you try and get a date just for the sake of not being the third wheel it isn't really fair on yourself or the girl. You'll just be lying to the both of you. I'm 18 and never had a date. You're still young, there's plenty of time for dates and the like. Go on your own and just have fun whilst you're young.

I understand what your saying but no one wants to be alone, My counselour even told me that, She told even though I'm young I'm still gonna have that want or need, especially seeing your fiends with their girlfriends

[DriftingCrow]

It sucks being lonely but generally when you go looking for things like a girlfriend you won't find one. It just needs to happen on its own

Yes Brandon, androidnick speaks the truth. When you look for love, you end up overseeing all the things that make you not compatible or you force yourself to change to fit in with someone else's desires, and it bites you in the butt later.

The girl for you will come along sooner or later. 

[Brandon]

Yes Brandon, androidnick speaks the truth. When you look for love, you end up overseeing all the things that make you not compatible or you force yourself to change to fit in with someone else's desires, and it bites you in the butt later.

The girl for you will come along sooner or later. 

Yea I understand that

[Brandon]

I know. No one, no matter what age they are wants to have someone. But again a relationship isn't something anyone can go out looking for. It just happens naturally. Unless you go on some dating website but I am assuming you are too young to even be in one.

Yes that's true

[Joe.]

I understand what your saying but no one wants to be alone, My counselour even told me that, She told even though I'm young I'm still gonna have that want or need, especially seeing your fiends with their girlfriends

I know, being alone sucks, but there's really no rush. Focus on your education, then look for a girl. I'm sure there are plenty of other people going to homecoming alone, so you're not going to be the only one. Seeing people happy in a relationship when you're not it hurts like mad, but it can't be rushed. Somebody will come along when you least expect it. Go with a group of friends and have a laugh with them.

[Brandon]

I know, being alone sucks, but there's really no rush. Focus on your education, then look for a girl. I'm sure there are plenty of other people going to homecoming alone, so you're not going to be the only one. Seeing people happy in a relationship when you're not it hurts like mad, but it can't be rushed. Somebody will come along when you least expect it. Go with a group of friends and have a laugh with them.

I'm not rushing, I've been waiting patiently, And I am focusing on my education I'm a Jr so I really don't have that much longer, I graduate in 1 year

[Brandon]

As a matter of fact I don't talk about relationships or talk about them or let girls no how I feel because I fear rejection so I don't even bother, It's no use to m I do want a girlfriend though, But am I rushing it absoulutely not!

[Joe.]

I wasn't accusing you of rushing. I understand your fear of rejection and that it is very real. What I'm saying is you're still young and you don't have to have a girlfriend during your school years, there's no requirement or anything. Don't feel pressured because of your friends being in relationships. If you want a girlfriend try being a bit more confident with them. Even if you're not confident and you're really scared, if you appear confident, it will help and girls will sense that. You have plenty of years ahead of you to find a nice girlfriend I just think you should enjoy your school years and if a girl comes along you like, try and get with her and see how it goes. A girl will come along when you least expect it, you just have to be confident it will happen, because it will.

[Brandon]

I wasn't accusing you of rushing. I understand your fear of rejection and that it is very real. What I'm saying is you're still young and you don't have to have a girlfriend during your school years, there's no requirement or anything. Don't feel pressured because of your friends being in relationships. If you want a girlfriend try being a bit more confident with them. Even if you're not confident and you're really scared, if you appear confident, it will help and girls will sense that. You have plenty of years ahead of you to find a nice girlfriend I just think you should enjoy your school years and if a girl comes along you like, try and get with her and see how it goes. A girl will come along when you least expect it, you just have to be confident it will happen, because it will.

Its just me being transgender that makes me feel less confident about girls and relationships, And then on top of that I'm shy which makes everything worse

[Joe.]

I know what you mean. You've probably heard the saying though 'people can only love you once you love yourself'. If you appear comfortable in your own skin, people will believe that and feel comfortable too. If you come across as shy and nervous then people will also feel that. It's all about body language. Like I said, if you appear confident, girls will feel confident too. Don't let people see that you're shy and nervous.