How Do You Handle Being A Transsexual?

[Danielle Emmalee]

Is that meant to be a joke?

Do you find it funny?

[FreshGuy]

Something about FreshGuy gave me the impression he would be into mason jars.

Umm no, why would I be into mason jars?

[Sammy]

Umm no, why would I be into mason jars?

it should be quite a big mason jar then...

And what exactly is trans truth?

[FreshGuy]

Do you find it funny?

No, I thought you were tryna say I need to keep a lid on my behaviour or something.

[Danielle Emmalee]

Umm no, why would I be into mason jars?

I'm not sure.  It would say a lot about your trans truth if you were.

[FreshGuy]

it should be quite a big mason jar then...

And what exactly is trans truth?

Can you just tell me how to handle my trans truth instead of all this jam jar chat

[FreshGuy]

I'm not sure.  It would say a lot about your trans truth if you were.

In what way? Are you trolling me?

[Danielle Emmalee]

In what way? Are you trolling me?

Its irrelevant if you're not into mason jars.  How was your childhood?

[FreshGuy]

Its irrelevant if you're not into mason jars.  How was your childhood?

Not great, I was bullied lots.

I played with babrbies and polly pockets a few times but I didn't exhibit much trans behaviour when I was a kid. My mum did say my favourite colour was pink when I was like 4 but I don't remember and my earliest memory is of me playing trucks with my dad.

My transsexualism was triggered in my adult life though so I didn't have the wish to be a woman throughout my childhood. I found out I was a transsexual last year after a cross dressing experience where I wore a sporty spice costume.

Now my world is being rocked back and forth up and down and side to side

[Danielle Emmalee]

Not great, I was bullied lots.

I played with babrbies and polly pockets a few times but I didn't exhibit much trans behaviour when I was a kid. My mum did say my favourite colour was pink when I was like 4 but I don't remember and my earliest memory is of me playing trucks with my dad.

My transsexualism was triggered in my adult life though so I didn't have the wish to be a woman throughout my childhood. I found out I was a transsexual last year after a cross dressing experience where I wore a sporty spice costume.

Now my world is being rocked back and forth up and down and side to side

Have you had any long term relationships?

[Murbella]

Perhaps we could try from this angle as well...

What makes you feel you are not ready to talk to a therapist about your issues?  Is it explaining why you are seeing someone to family?  Is it that you do not feel you have the resources to go about finding one?  Would you be willing to participate in a support group in your area?

In general what everyone here is telling you is that you need to find someone who you can talk to locally, face to face about your issues.  The best we can do from a forum is provide you with resources on helping yourself, and aiding with courage in seeking out help.   

[Horizon]

I NEED HELP HANDLING MY TRANS TRUTH!

IT IS ROCKING MY WORLD!!

I'm also going to be controversial!  FreshGuy...are you cross posting from r/transgendercirclejerk?  Either you're a pretty silly troll, or your beliefs in transsexuality stem from satire.  The bold and caps lock makes me believe the former.

In case you are being serious...uhhh...it doesn't "rock my world" in any way.  I live life.  I go to college.  The only difference from anyone else is that I take pills twice a day.  It's pretty simple, really.

[mrs izzy]

I think you are more Transphobia, hypercondriac coupled with OCD...

Everyone just look back at the older posts made.
Anything said is just a waste of time. If no one is willing to seek professional help then there is nothing a open public forum can do to help..

[Anatta]

KIa Ora,

Re: How Do You Handle Being  A Transsexual?

It's like the weather, you have no choice but to go with the flow...

Metta Zenda

[FreshGuy]

Have you had any long term relationships?

Does 6 months count?

[FreshGuy]

Perhaps we could try from this angle as well...

What makes you feel you are not ready to talk to a therapist about your issues?  Is it explaining why you are seeing someone to family?  Is it that you do not feel you have the resources to go about finding one?  Would you be willing to participate in a support group in your area?

In general what everyone here is telling you is that you need to find someone who you can talk to locally, face to face about your issues.  The best we can do from a forum is provide you with resources on helping yourself, and aiding with courage in seeking out help.

thanks I don't feel emotionally able to discuss it with a therapist but I have been in touch with a local support group.

[FreshGuy]

I'm also going to be controversial!  FreshGuy...are you cross posting from r/transgendercirclejerk?  Either you're a pretty silly troll, or your beliefs in transsexuality stem from satire.  The bold and caps lock makes me believe the former.

In case you are being serious...uhhh...it doesn't "rock my world" in any way.  I live life.  I go to college.  The only difference from anyone else is that I take pills twice a day.  It's pretty simple, really.

Well you're lucky, for me it is hard to handle.

[FreshGuy]

I think you are more Transphobia, hypercondriac coupled with OCD...

Everyone just look back at the older posts made.
Anything said is just a waste of time. If no one is willing to seek professional help then there is nothing a open public forum can do to help..

That is a possiblity but it doesn't explain everything. OCD could be a misdiagnosis. People get misdiagnosed all the time.

[Danielle Emmalee]

Does 6 months count?

ehhhh it depends on how intense the relationship was.  Was it with a girl or a boy?

[FreshGuy]

ehhhh it depends on how intense the relationship was.  Was it with a girl or a boy?

A girl, how is this relevant to my transsexuality? lol