Might be getting fired in the morning.

[Ltl89]

What exactly was your job title?  Where you a nurse?  RN or LPN? If so, there is a lot of wiggle room for agency nurses. 

[Teela Renee]

What exactly was your job title?  Where you a nurse?  RN or LPN? If so, there is a lot of wiggle room for agency nurses.

I was a in home health aid,  Its just a title. besides having EMS/EMT training the onlything special about my position was getting medpass A and B certified by the state.

[Donna Elvira]

Teela,
I feel for you so much. You do need legal help and as someone else already suggested, if you haven't already done so, your nearest LGBT support group is probably a very good place to start.
Do you think you could get other people, patients and/or colleages, to testify regarding the harrassment you were subjected to?
Fondest best wishes.
Donna

[Ltl89]

Most of my family works in medical, so all I know is what they tell me.   To be honest, I can't give you an accurate depiction about the job situation for home health aids; therefore I'm sorry I can't be more helpful. Nonetheless, I hope you find something soon and sorry you have to go through this. 

[Teela Renee]

Teela,
I feel for you so much. You do need legal help and as someone else already suggested, if you haven't already done so, your nearest LGBT support group is probably a very good place to start.
Do you think you could get other people, patients and/or colleages, to testify regarding the harrassment you were subjected to?
Fondest best wishes.
Donna

yeah a few patients and co workers have agreed to come forward for me.

[Donna Elvira]

yeah a few patients and co workers have agreed to come forward for me.

Then I suggest you follow up on that very quickly while feelings are still strong. I hate to say it, but time and worries about self-preservation can quickly dampen people's feelings of sympathy in cases such as yours.
Have you looked into getting legal aid and did you come up with something? You will need that to.
Wishing you all the best.
Donna

[Ms. OBrien CVT]

Did they say they would block you from getting Unemployment?

[Teela Renee]

I live in some of the most conservative parts of indiana. Finding a lawyer has been a bitch, ive called 5 of them that refuse to touch it cause Indiana has no protection laws and dont feel Federal is gonna be enough.      So now im waiting to hear from the Transgender law clinic, the NCLR, and a few other groups based out of indiana for Refferals.  And as far as unemployment claim, Im going to be meeting with some of them for written statements, and stuff tonight and tomarow.

Untill then I also put up some self employment ads on craigs-list.  http://chicago.craigslist.org/nwi/bts/4086374560.html    If any of you wanna look it over and give me any pointers on how to sprous it up.

[Teela Renee]

Did they say they would block you from getting Unemployment?

nope, but they hinted at it.    When I asked to see the M.A.R.S. sheets they claimed I missed up on, they said im no longer an employee and if I wanted to see them I could see them in court if I apply for unemployment. But im not worried. Imma steamroll them so bad.

[Ltl89]

Hey Teela,

About your Craigslist Ad, it can be easily misinterpreted.  I would be careful about the sort of clientel that respond to home massage ads. Just a warning because I have run into plenty of creeps on Craigslist during my job hunt.  Believe me, there are many weirdos and scam artists out there. 

[Teela Renee]

Hey Teela,

About your Craigslist Ad, it can be easily misinterpreted.  I would be careful about the sort of clientel that respond to home massage ads. Just a warning because I have run into plenty of creeps on Craigslist during my job hunt.  Believe me, there are many weirdos and scam artists out there.

I know, my roomie has been doing it for years. She is gonna supervise me for awhile on it and keep my safe/ work sorta as my security on calls.
Not to mention I have a concealed Carry permit and my gun is the kinda that doesnt take prisoners.

[bethany]

Hi Teela, I am so sorry to hear you are going through all of this. I hope that you are able to nail your former employer to the wall.
I wish you nothing but the best with what you got planed for work, but please be careful when it comes to working with people who contact you through your Craig's list add. As LtL has said there are lots of creeps out there.

And if you lived closer to me I would hire you to do my laser hair removal. But I think the commute to Massachusetts is a bit far for you.

Hugs,
Bethany

[kathyk]

Teela:
I've been away for a day, and oh my how things changed. 

I've mentioned The Transgender Law Center in San Francisco before because they do national representaton for assitance with various legal issues.  You may want to call them and see if they can help in any way.  I don't know if they can, but it's all free and they understand the financial situations of the clients.  The wife of one of my Nephews worked there for several years as an attorney, and she's the one who steered me there for name change assistance.

http://transgenderlawcenter.org/       telephone  415.865.0176

[Teela Renee]

Teela:
I've been away for a day, and oh my how things changed. 

I've mentioned The Transgender Law Center in San Francisco before because they do national representaton for assitance with various legal issues.  You may want to call them and see if they can help in any way.  I don't know if they can, but it's all free and they understand the financial situations of the clients.  The wife of one of my Nephews worked there for several years as an attorney, and she's the one who steered me there for name change assistance.

http://transgenderlawcenter.org/       telephone  415.865.0176

Yep, I contacted them and they are going to get back to me with some representation referrals.

@Bethany  aww. Thanks. if you lived closer id gladly do it for you ^^.

[RavenMoon]

On a side note, there is a special place in hell for people that can't respect other people.

Hell's too good for them.

And there seems to be so many... sigh

[Murbella]

Saw this today
http://transgenderequality.wordpress.com/2013/09/24/four-things-you-should-know-to-understand-the-eeoc-decision-and-the-need-for-enda/

Hopefully this helps a bit with some insight into the process that goes on behind the scenes.  It still sounds nasty, but that means nasty fir your former employer as well which might grease the settlement wheels.

[JLT1]

There is a group of lawyers in MN that does some work on this type of situation.  They may know of a similar group in IN.  Try them

http://callforjustice.org/
   
The director is MTF.

[DrBobbi]

I have another suggestion that may help, and that is going to your local newspaper reporter, and, or TV news. I know that you might find this invasive, however, depending on you "out" status, a powerful tool to shame an employer into doing the right thing. Transgender issues are being taken seriously by reporters lately, now that the gay and lesbian community don't have to worry about DOMA and Prop 8.

Good Luck.

[Jean24]

I got terminated. Tons of bogus reasons listed on it my termination paper, and multiple co workers and even a few of my patients are willing to testify to my quality of care I give them and their homes. Im downloading and filling out the eeoc paperwork as we speak.

That's bull****. I'm glad you are taking this route. Good luck!

[Jessica Merriman]

One of the first times in my life I'm speechless, so BIG HUG