Hi there,
I am not transgendered, but I came across this post when searching on google for some resources for myself. I am a female with a recto-vaginal fistula from childbirth. If your daughter is still looking for advice/support, we have a facebook group called "Living with obstetric fistula". There are 100+ ladies who are dealing with this as well. None are transgendered, but I'm sure they will have no problem allowing her in the group. They are a great bunch of women, and it's a good place to get info on surgeries, doctors, etc. It's a terrible thing to live with, and there's nothing worse than feeling like you're alone.