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What's in your purse

Started by Lesley_Roberta, September 28, 2013, 09:34:32 PM

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Lesley_Roberta

I KNEW this thread was going to be fun :)

I don't carry a back pack, even though they hold more, well, it's a back pack eh, they simply don't 'look' attractive. Granted, if I am going visiting, I likely will have my laptop and that means a carry all which also holds an amazing array of techy things.

To me a back pack is for carrying clothing though.

I have looked into a lot of purse options though. You need one for those cargo moments, but, you also want something that doesn't scream out grocery bag. And it's not like I want to carry something that is ok for craft day. If it can hold your knitting, it is probably too big.

My new purse, fully crammed it is still middle of the middle size range. It's not small, but is still not at all big or anything. I sure wouldn't want it on an evening dress, but it looks fine for out and about shopping.

I have enjoyed making it plain it is a 'PURSE' though. Encountered an old friend that has been out of the loop recently. He asked about the long hair and the jewellery and my 'man bag'. I told him it was a purse and then told him I wasn't a guy. It led to a nice chat for about half an hour too. He has his own unique health aggros and I suspect he liked that I was able to talk freely with him and that his own troubles would not be laughed at or dismissed as funny.

I've enjoyed seeing some of the things you girls carry around with you.
I always felt put upon trying to get things into pockets. Always being burdened with jackets and needing them mostly for pockets and saddened when the warm weather returned, as it made the jacket a problem to wear.
I love my purses. I can ditch the jacket dependency and carry what I want. And not need to fret over how it impacts my appearance in my clothing.
Well being TG is no treat, but becoming separated has sure caused me more trouble that being TG ever will be. So if I post, consider it me trying to distract myself from being lonely, not my needing to discuss being TG. I don't want to be separated a lot more than not wanting to be male looking.
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Lesley_Roberta

????

Big magnet? and a laptop and a DS all in the same general proximity? Isn't that kinda impossible?

That bag though must weigh a ton. It sounds like you have more load than a soldier would be carrying.
Well being TG is no treat, but becoming separated has sure caused me more trouble that being TG ever will be. So if I post, consider it me trying to distract myself from being lonely, not my needing to discuss being TG. I don't want to be separated a lot more than not wanting to be male looking.
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Sammy

Quote from: Lesley_Roberta on September 30, 2013, 06:55:08 AM
????

Big magnet? and a laptop and a DS all in the same general proximity? Isn't that kinda impossible?

That bag though must weigh a ton. It sounds like you have more load than a soldier would be carrying.

Yeah, like Condor 3 day assault pack :)
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Robin Mack

I'm still crazy enough to change purses when I go out frequently, so I carry the minimums:

Touch up cosmetics (lipstick, concealer, powder)
Card purse (ID, credit cards)
Gerber multi-tool (hey, a girl's gotta be prepared... particularly a geeky one who is called on to fix computer issues at any moment)
Keys
Phone
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vlmitchell

Quote from: pebbles on September 29, 2013, 03:06:30 PM
I've stubbornly refused to get a purse/handbag, I prefer backpacks, women handbags seem so silly to me, You want to stack everything as close to your centre of mass as possible and on an average human this is somewhere around your stomach I mean it's rocket Science 101 Moreover you can fit more miscellaneous guff in a backpack rather than a handbag.

Uhhhh... you kinda miss the point, dearest.

One: fashion. Having different handbags, purses, clutches, etc in different patterns and materials for different needs means that you can put together a look that says what you want it to when you want it to without having a jarring element. You may see it as frivolous but it's actually pretty handy to be able to put yourself together in a way that will demand the kind of recognition you want without having to work harder for it (professional, fun, flirty, casual, goofy, etc.)

Two: convenience. I can't walk around a store with a backpack on. It's also a good lesson in learning to make do with less. Packing everything including the kitchen sink in your bag is really wasting a lot of energy on carrying around stuff that you probably won't use that day. I've got a guy friend who does the utility bag thing like you do, he rarely uses all that stuff and he's a tech for a living.

Quote from: robinmack on September 30, 2013, 10:16:35 AM
Gerber multi-tool (hey, a girl's gotta be prepared... particularly a geeky one who is called on to fix computer issues at any moment)

Personally, being a geek girl doesn't mean that I wanna walk-around with a friggin utility belt nor does it mean that I want to be responsible for fixing something due to someone's lack of knowledge. I can sling anything that speaks machine code. Doesn't mean I wanna when I'm off the clock or not doodling around a personal project. Only time that I pack stuff like that is camping, actually doing field work, or on long distance drives (in case something weird happens.)
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Sammy

Quote from: Victoria Mitchell on September 30, 2013, 02:35:53 PM
Only time that I pack stuff like that is camping, actually doing field work, or on long distance drives (in case something weird happens.)

Ugh, I wont even mention what kind of stuff I tend to pack in when going out for camping :P.
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vlmitchell

Quote from: -Emily- on September 30, 2013, 02:39:25 PM
Ugh, I wont even mention what kind of stuff I tend to pack in when going out for camping :P.

Repeat after me: less is more, less is more, less is more!
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Sammy

Quote from: Victoria Mitchell on September 30, 2013, 02:43:07 PM
Repeat after me: less is more, less is more, less is more!

Well, since I suspect that my carrying ability has went down significantly (no more running around with 15+ kilos backpacks), my list might see some revision... But I still prefer to be comfortable out there :).
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Anna++

I don't have a whole lot:

- Bobby pins
- Pens / pencils
- Wallet
- Phone (usually)
- Hand cream (as of yesterday)
- Chapstick
- Keys (does it count if I clip them to my purse instead of dropping them in the bag?)
Sometimes I blog things

Of course I'm sane.  When trees start talking to me, I don't talk back.



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Robin Mack

Quote from: Victoria Mitchell on September 30, 2013, 02:35:53 PM
Personally, being a geek girl doesn't mean that I wanna walk-around with a friggin utility belt nor does it mean that I want to be responsible for fixing something due to someone's lack of knowledge. I can sling anything that speaks machine code. Doesn't mean I wanna when I'm off the clock or not doodling around a personal project. Only time that I pack stuff like that is camping, actually doing field work, or on long distance drives (in case something weird happens.)

Well, in my case, it's favors for friends.  Better to have a tool on hand that I am comfortable with than to have to make an appointment later.  Besides, it's mostly a services-swap thing.  "Hey, I could totally replace your power supply and get your computer online this afternoon.  Coincidentally, you make fabulous cheesecake.  Did I mention I love cheesecake?" sort of thing... ;)
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Lesley_Roberta

Hehehe Victoria is on target.

While it is nice if you are going from point A to point B and the journey is measured in days not miles you might not mind something that qualifies as luggage. And I buy my purses at Bentley's which I suspect is more a luggage store than a purse retailer.

But the thing is, a purse is meant to accompany you while you are out shopping, not traveling. It's what you have with you when you get asked out to dinner, even if not out for a fancy one. If there is going to be dancing, and you are wearing a special rare moment dress, the backpack will simply be the wrongest possible item.

If I'm going to Ottawa to stay with family for a week, I will still have my purse, but, I might also have the carry all with the laptop. And it might be inside the suitcase with my clothes and my bathroom gear. And it is called luggage :)

A purse needs to be an accessory, it's not meant to be a cargo container.

I went out of my way to get a 10 inch Asus Transformer tablet because at the time, biggest screen was the objective. Today I have had to come to grips with the fact a lady's purse big enough to carry a 10 inch tablet is simply going to be too big for most nice outfits. Shopping maybe, a date unlikely and something fancy most assuredly not. So I carry my Nexus 7 as my on the go tablet. The 10 inch has become my model table TV (although I can use the laptop, I am occasionally working on it instead and thus watching video on the 10").

I used to carry around my Nintendo DSi XL as well, till I forced myself to get a grip. I never get around to playing with it when I am out and about. The games usually want to much focus. I have the Nexus for quick fun simple games now. Bigger screen too.

Girls are not forced to be delicate, but ideally you need to at least be able to turn it on and off easily :)
Backpacks are so totally high school kids in my opinion, or persons that don't mind the fact the thing seems to scream out 'this person is single, and looking this way probably will remain so' :)

Hey, what can I say, a backpack doesn't make you look very attractive. It's as bad as wearing a grubby hoody.
Fine if you have a multi destination day such as school and work combined for coping with carrying a change for work I suppose.

I am dying to see a day when I can wear a nice dress, and I don't think a backpack quite goes :)

But I see a lot of gals out there using cloth bags as well. easy enough to carry a lot of junk as it is a bag after all. But I like compartments. I don't want my things all just dumped on a one location bag.

I see a lot of people walk around and they appear to have no way to carry anything at all. I can't picture that though. But then again, I don't have a car, so if I am out there, well I won't have left it back in my car.

I'm looking forward to actually buying something more ostensibly fashionable and more in line with decorative.
I just hope I can also find places to go where having something like that is required.
Well being TG is no treat, but becoming separated has sure caused me more trouble that being TG ever will be. So if I post, consider it me trying to distract myself from being lonely, not my needing to discuss being TG. I don't want to be separated a lot more than not wanting to be male looking.
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Murbella

I don't carry a purse yet, but I had to post this somewhere.  This will be my first purse, I want this sooo bad!!!!
http://www.etsy.com/shop/JungleTribe


Lesley_Roberta

I could never wear that, but it does look unique. I think a person needs to be under 25 to pull off the look.
Well being TG is no treat, but becoming separated has sure caused me more trouble that being TG ever will be. So if I post, consider it me trying to distract myself from being lonely, not my needing to discuss being TG. I don't want to be separated a lot more than not wanting to be male looking.
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vlmitchell

Eh, you could get away with it until 40, depending on your look and vibe. I could rock it with the tight-jeans, tank-top, circle sunglasses schtick.
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Renee

wallet
three different sets of keys
hand sanitizer
hand cream
lipgloss
bandaids
orajel
bottle of aspirin
bottle of ibuprophen
small safety pins
little screw driver set
flashlight
pen light
pen
Bluetooth earpiece in its case
phone
bear
one really big safety pin(6")
some folded up paper towels
small adjustable wrench
tape measure
a few zip ties
two sizes of post it notes
small pliers
gum
cough drops
tic tacs
dum dum suckers I collect from the bank
bunch of large paper clips
nail file
alcohol wipes
checkbook
various receipts
cigs
lighter
matches
dental floss thingies
comb
a couple of play checks from work(ie pseudo checks that just show what they deposited electronically)
small notebook
a chewy granola bar that I meant to eat last week

And I think that's all. I really should clean it out a little, its getting a bit fat...
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Murbella

Quote from: Victoria Mitchell on September 30, 2013, 05:35:12 PM
Eh, you could get away with it until 40, depending on your look and vibe. I could rock it with the tight-jeans, tank-top, circle sunglasses schtick.

Hehe, that is the look and vibe I think I would like to be able to pull off... No clue if I will be able to though.  A girl can dream.

Bijou

Lets see what we have in here....
sunglasses
lip stain
altoids
keys
wallet
pads
rubber bands
barrettes
hair band
phone
phone charger
2 breakfast bars
1 bottled water
measuring tape
wow, I didn't realize how much was in it...and its a small purse too haha.
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Robin Mack

Quote from: Bijou on October 01, 2013, 08:39:55 AM
Lets see what we have in here....
...
barrettes
hair band
...
wow, I didn't realize how much was in it...and its a small purse too haha.

(imagines Journey in Bijou's purse)...

I'm having an odd brain morning.  ;)
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Sabrina

Multi-tool, generic pain pills, matches, flint and steel, wire, 550-cord, knit hat, glove, thumb-drive, Nintendo DS XL with charger and lots of games, flashlight, batteries, lighter, dental floss, dental floss picks, written directions to various places I frequent, napkins, necklace, chapstick, ear-bud headphones, eyeglass cloth, band-aids, anti-itch cream, mints, rubber bands, bottle / paint can opener, and likely some other stuff that I forgot. That reminds me I need to add duct tape, super glue, a poncho, and a pen / paper.

I add stuff to my purse as needed or that I think might need or have used before then just leave it there. I find that eventually I end up needing something. I'm a firm believer in preparation.
- Sabrina

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noleen111

My purse, it not too big, a medium size sling bag

-wallet
-keys
-lipstick
-lip gloss
-tissues
-lighter
-cigarettes
-cell phone
Enjoying ride the hormones are giving me... finally becoming the woman I always knew I was
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