Dear Devlyn,
First, let me say that I hope this was a decision that you reached on your own volition after deep consideration. If this is your choice, then I will stand by your decision.
Secondly, I would like to thank you for everything you have done. Most will talk about your service here as a moderator, which is obvious and meaningful, but I would like to focus on two personal memories I have of you.
There was a time when I doubted my ability to remain a positive force on this site. Many might think I was being silly or just complaining. Whatever the case was, you saw that I was in need of help and reached out. Not everything is public and for other people's eyes, but your positive messages and reinforcement truly meant something. I'm never one to believe in myself, so what you said to me did mean a lot. You always had you eye on me and for that I'm grateful.
The other memory I have of you was a recent event. Without intending to do so, you taught me a valuable lesson. Through your words and kind pms, you gave me an unintended lesson that I needed to have. What that lesson was will remain private, but I want you to know that you had a positive impact one me. Even though it may sound silly that something so miniscule could be profound, I truly believe your lesson will help me grow and become a better person both on this site and in life. That's a gift which I will always appreciate.
I'm really sad to see you go. I may have never met you in person, and our interactions on this site may have been terse, but you are a meaningful member to me. Some may think I'm crazy for saying these things, but I do see this as a family. I really do. You all were here for me when I needed you and we all try to do the same for others. Remember, families go through many thing together: we cry, we laugh, we fight, we understand and show compassion, we teach and guide, and we grow together. No matter the reasoning for this decision, please remember that there are people here who see you as family and no amount of infighting or grief can destroy that bond. With that in mind, I really hope you stay and remain.
