I have only got small boobs, but large, heavy & wobbly nipples as a result of using "Supple Nipp" suction teats & electric breast pumps.
I still don't need much of a bra though, just some gentle support and a lot of nipple restraint! I would really like to wear lacy soft cup bralettes, but they are difficult to get in my band size.
I have got some old padded bras, which support me well, but they tend to push my painfully developed nipples in flat. Do all bras squash your nipples?
However, I have found that if you are careful, you can cut away all the padding, to leave the outer lace cup only (use small sharp scissors or a scalpel).
The result is a see-through soft cup lace bra with lots of nipple room! I think my favourite colour is pink lace with black straps and edgings.