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The wife has moved out with our son and now I'm alone :(

Started by Christine167, October 20, 2013, 02:24:35 PM

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DrBobbi

it gets worse, then much, much, much better. Stay true and focused. Hugs
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Antonia J

I am so sorry. My wife of 12 yrs was my world and I came out in February to her.  Our divorce was final a week ago. This is the worst part of being true to yourself, and I share your pain.  Time will heal, but it will take a long time.  Best of luck to you and be strong.
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KabitTarah

Quote from: Christine167 on October 20, 2013, 07:15:54 PM
Thank you everyone. As an update my wife did call me back and I did get a chance to visit and share dinner with my wife, my son and wife's parents.  :)

Apparently what had happened was that they were helping my wife assemble a new closet organizer and our little man had hidden the phone. He is quite good at it. I feel much better. I did cry again on my way home from my in-laws but I am cleaning the house now and my efforts are making me feel more comfortable here.

What would I do without all of you? Thank you for being here for me  :)

I'm happy I've already gotten to this thread too late to say that it only gets better now ♥
I hope the happy times you will have are frequent!
~ Tarah ~

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Gina Taylor

Quote from: Christine167 on October 20, 2013, 07:15:54 PM
Thank you everyone. As an update my wife did call me back and I did get a chance to visit and share dinner with my wife, my son and wife's parents.  :)

Apparently what had happened was that they were helping my wife assemble a new closet organizer and our little man had hidden the phone. He is quite good at it. I feel much better. I did cry again on my way home from my in-laws but I am cleaning the house now and my efforts are making me feel more comfortable here.

What would I do without all of you? Thank you for being here for me  :)

That is really so comforting to hear and I'm sure that it took a lot of strain and relief off of you as well. But I guess these unexpected things will happen, and that's why we love our little children  :)
Gina Marie Taylor  8)
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Ms Grace

I so sorry to hear things had to be the way they have been. At least you are still on good terms with her and I hope that continues. All the very best.  :)
Grace
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Transition 1.0 (Julie): HRT 1989-91
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Transition 2.0 (Grace): HRT June 24 2013
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kathyk

I held off saying anything yesterday because our wives, children and grandchildren mean so much to us, and it hurts so intensely to be separated from them.  And to this I can only add one more Hug. 

Take care.





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Carlita

And one more hug of empathy and best wishes from me. It's so, so, so hard trying to balance what we know is best for ourselves with the love and duty we feel towards the ones we love. I'm so glad that you have at least been able to maintain contact with your wife and son and I wish you all the luck and love in the world as you go further on your journey.

You are not going alone ...
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Karla

Christine,

As I'm only about a month ahead of you and going through the same, I know exactly what you're feeling.

The crying bits have become fewer and further between. 

We must remain confident that there are many out there who will love us for who we are.  Because it's the truth.

Hugs,
Karla
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