Putting aside the negative connotations that can arise in the use of the word 'lurking' I must admit to having been lurking since way before Christmas.
The question is why? What prompted this lurking?
Well, to be brief, I'm naturally shy; although not secretive I have learned to keep my inner most thoughts to myself. In retrospect this has much to do with being transgender and the necessary self-protection modality of fitting in as a male in a binary society. As you are all aware this is a state of being that can easily lead to self-isolation. Recently I have been so uncomfortable with myself that I haven't been able to log on to this site. I fact, I didn't even visit this site at all for several weeks.
What has drawn me back to making this particular comment is due to reading the threads and being very much impressed by what I have read. Leaving quoted examples aside, I have observed love, sincerity, thoughtfulness and great intelligence and wisdom in the conversations I have read. Some threads I have read from cover to cover as it were, some I have just dipped into.
As a 'lurker' I would like to say thank you to all who do contribute their thoughts and life experience in their writings, but most of all for the invariable care and love they express. I have come to know through reading the various threads that I am in safe hands here.
Love to all...