BTW, when I told my soon-to-be ex about it, ("...so the guy says, "You Are A Guy!"...), she actually agreed with him!! That I shouldn't have been oot and aboot "provoking" with my clothes and makeup...
I told her (quoting that awesome "Ted" video) "I am not going to live in a closet just because some people have a problem with me."
She does, of course. But....OH WELL TOO BAD FOR HER.