is a concert worth outing myself?

[PrincessPatience]

In 2 days my favorite singer, Rihanna (who's very transfriendly. I have pictures to prove it) is coming to my hometown to perform. I have a good tickets and meet her before and have another chance of meeting her again this time.

However i've been on HRT for 3 weeks without my parents knowing. My car is currently broken down in the shop getting fixed and my only option of going to the concert would be through them driving me or taxi. I stay with my grandmother but if i go i still have to tell them. They're very overly protective like that. It'll be on a Thursday night and mom wouldn't have work the next day. So them taking me wouldn't be an issue. However i planned on going to the concert full time for the first time in public as a woman. But idk how they would react to me coming out to them as trans. My parents are accepting people and i know my dad wouldn't care in the long run but he's currently frustrated with me due my schooling. (Which is a whole different story)  and my mom would be the one struggling with it even though i know she'll come around.  I was planning on coming out tomorrow 1 day before the concert otherwise i don't think i would go. I've been struggling with this question to come out or not all weekend and it's something i really want to do but not sure if the timing is right and the issues of my parent frustrated with my schooling.

It's risky  but What do you guys think i should do?   

[DriftingCrow]

Is it possible to dress as male while with your parents and then just quickly change somewhere before going into the concert? Perhaps you can arrange for them to drive you there early (or you go to the house and use their car) and then stop off at a McDonald's or something and change in the bathroom?

[PrincessPatience]

Is it possible to dress as male while with your parents and then just quickly change somewhere before going into the concert? Perhaps you can arrange for them to drive you there early (or you go to the house and use their car) and then stop off at a McDonald's or something and change in the bathroom?

Yeah, i could change and do that but that's risky as well. Because the only close bathroom is in the mall which is across from the Arena. They also don't let people in before the event so i can't go change in there in the bathroom.  The restroom is right by the food court and the girls bathroom is on the other-side of the room as the girls.  So me going in the restroom as a boy and coming out the stalls as a girl would be risky.
Sadly they won't let me drive their car. I just got hit and in an accident so they would be too paranoid to do that.

[DriftingCrow]

Well, if you're not ready to come out to them yet, maybe it's best to just go in guy mode. Or. . . you can always do the trick of hiding a skinny little cute shirt underneath a t-shirt and some tight little shorts under some pants and just whip them off in the parking lot when your parents drive off, shove the clothes in your purse. Still risky, but at least no bathrooms involved. Just hide behind an empty car and near a light so you're not scared in the dark somewhere.

Sadly they won't let me drive their car. I just got hit and in an accident so they would be too paranoid to do that.

I hope you're okay!