Catharine,
That's simply not true though! It feels nice and liberating to say "I don't care about all of that, so long as I'M happy, but in the end, that's untrue! No gender-nonspecific person is an island, and I think the reason this process has been hardest on me personally is because of how isolating it all can be.
I desperately cling to this notion that some day, with enough money to invest in my face I'll be able to pass, even though it's probably a pipe dream, and the reason I do so is because I personally can't make it through my life alone. I'm sure I'll one day realize that it's out of reach, and when I do, it'll crush me...or perhaps I'm just being morbid. But anyways...If you can be your own is;and, I admire your strength, but pride isn't enough for me personally.