Sexuality of MtFs?

[V M]

I am able to appreciate beauty and good looks and there are people I find attractive for various reasons but I'm generally not a sexually motivated individual

I'm one of those weird people who are more interested in friendships and relating with others and sex tends to be secondary if even a consideration at all

[evecrook]

Well, I  haven't been sexually active for awhile ,but I had very beautiful relations with both .I  have of late for some reason been fantasizing of very delicious men, but I'm not exclusively for men. All though being the wife of a very wealthy man would be interesting. Then again I guess love is where you find happiness and in that case it would be who ever I meet and find love.

[Kristal]

I'm attracted to women, even (okay, especially) other trans women. I'm submissive, so I kind of want to be there in the moment and have the other person do things to me, whatever they want... Excuse me for a moment...

*ahem* Anyways, I'm fine with penis (well, except for mine) I just don't like men. It probably has something to do with **TRIGGER** being raped **TRIGGER** as a child, but whatever. I might be over it, like, mentally, but I'm not over it emotionally, if that makes any sense. Guys are jerks anyway. If I could find another trans girl to hang out with; non-op, pre-op, post-op, doesn't matter; that would be my definition of heaven. With cis people, there's always the chance that they'll leave you for some other cis person because they can't deal with the whole trans thing. But another trans person? You girls get me, and I get you. We understand how it feels to live this way, there's a bond there.

Seriously, why don't we have the spoiler or blackout code enabled in BBCode for triggers? You'd think if any place would have it, it would be a trans forum...

[Ashey]

I'm pansexual. Men, women, trans, whatever. But I have my preferences. Right now I lean more towards men, but I think my ideal relationship would be with either a man and a woman as their submissive or with a man and another female submissive. And since I joined here, I've also been leaning a bit more towards other transsexuals.

[KabitTarah]

I said "other."

I really don't know anymore.
I started out lesbian.
Then I started thinking I'm probably bi... leaning lesbian
I'm now thinking bi... leaning straight...

by the time I've been on HRT for a while... who knows???

[Urban Christina]

I've been attracted to men my whole life and never did anything with a woman expect some kissing in elementary school because I don't find women sexually appealing at all. But after being on HRT for more than a year, now I'm developing feelings for this lesbain worker at my grocery store who is very friendly with me and there are very few women I would consider but only if they are very butch. Never has this happened to me before. Anyone else experience the same?

[MadeleineG]

Especially since they are both 17 years younger than me, am not expecting a lot of maturity out of them. :/

You must be quite a bit older than your profile pic suggests...

[Ltl89]

I consider myself straight.  I'm only interested in dating or being intimate with a guy.  However, I do acknowledge there are attractive women out there and do think some other girls are pretty.  Yet, I have no desire to date a female or pursue anything physical.  It's just not for me.  So, I'm either straight or bi curious depending on how you look at it.  I have a hard time with labels, especially when I have to explain it to people who aren't familiar with the trans community and/or gender identity. 

[Mogu]

Bisexual as a woman.

Although my standards for men are higher.

[Lauren5]

Not surprising, we're hitting the 30/30/30/10 mark, around about.

[Jill F]

I'll just go with pansexual.  Once you're out as trans you're already way beyond queer anyway.  My sexuality is pretty irrelevant to me now.

[JLT1]

I'm not sure anymore but right now I'm in a 3 way relationship with another girl and a guy.

This is new and they both say they love me, so who knows how it will turn out. O.O

Especially since they are both 17 years younger than me, am not expecting a lot of maturity out of them. :/

You go girl.....



I like women.  I tried with a guy and without the right parts, it just didn't work well.  Once I get the right parts, I may try again.  But still, women are wonderful....

[Riley Skye]

I consider myself a panromantic lesbian. I don't really have any sexual attraction but I generally find any gender and/or sex attractive. I mainly stick to dating girls. So in one respect I'm pan and in another respect I'm a lesbian :]

[kira21 ♡♡♡]

I like men. I can appreciate their beauty but I just don't know what I would do with a woman that would interest me! lol.

[Jenna Marie]

I'm another who was bi before transition and bi after. Though slightly more interested in men than before (say, from 10% men and 90% women to 20/80), because there's a HUGE difference between the way a straight man treats a woman and the way a gay man treats someone he thinks is a bi man. Turns out that while the latter really turned me off, being seen as a woman by attractive straight men is kinda hot.

[Ashey]

being seen as a woman by attractive straight men is kinda hot.

Mmmmhmm! It seems so vanilla, and like I'm selling out, but.. I've just been fantasizing about men a lot lately, and having a big strong man dominating lil ol' me is just....mmph..    *fans self* 

I can't seem to attribute it to my change in sex-drive though... I think it's more related to the change in how I perceive myself. Because before HRT, I saw myself and carried myself more like a man. And now perceiving myself as a woman, I guess I can actually see myself being with a guy.

[KabitTarah]

Mmmmhmm! It seems so vanilla, and like I'm selling out, but.. I've just been fantasizing about men a lot lately, and having a big strong man dominating lil ol' me is just....mmph..    *fans self* 

I can't seem to attribute it to my change in sex-drive though... I think it's more related to the change in how I perceive myself. Because before HRT, I saw myself and carried myself more like a man. And now perceiving myself as a woman, I guess I can actually see myself being with a guy.

Me too!!!!! And it doesn't have anything to do with HRT. I just can't see being gay and male. I don't think there's anything at all wrong with it... but it just doesn't work for me. . . but I'm not male.

All my fantasies (and I'm not even talking sexually - though.....) lately involve me being held and loved and protected. I suppose it could be a woman holding me close, but it just doesn't feel like it is.

I don't relate to men on any intellectual level right now, though... I suppose there could be exceptions, but that part of it is difficult for me to imagine.

[Rachel]

I guess I am more a pansexual. Since starting HRT I guess I have shifted a little more to wanting sex with males than else.

[kellibra]

great question. how many of us not think about this often especially when dressed? however the answer, at least for me, has to be fluid. i have a hard time sticking a label onto what i 'may' be as i think it is too hard. i read many posts here about who we are and oftentimes, the path becomes muddled with way too much intellectualization.
whatever happened to just how we feel? i know for one i have no interest in men, not even talking or getting to know them. however around women, i so want to become of them, be adopted by the group and be considered as an equal. i have always had an unending admiration of women. so much so that this led me to want to be like them.
harking back to my school years, i sometimes felt like i should have been born a girl, they are 'deeper' emotionally, are much more attractive and can have so much fun than i could ever imagine myself as a boy being, doing or having. desires of emulation of course gave way to underdressing as a way to explore this 'girl' inside me. and this went on and off for many years despite scaring me at first because i loved it so much.
recently though, underdressing has come back with a vengeance and i am now venturing farther into the world of woman-hood than before. the urge to dress more and more has led me to question what i have evolved into. my desire to become a woman is getting stronger and i am considering going on hrt to encourage my seemingly developing breasts (i now wear a bra as often as i can) to get slightly rounder and bigger. i don't think i want to transition at this time but i do want to experience life more as a woman. i am bored with the guy role i guess.
somehow i want my inner female to be acknowledged. as far as the sexual component is concerned, it is very strong and i think of myself as trans-lesbian if anything. however i have also recently been having these odd fantasies about being a woman with a man and being submissive for him. i fantasize about having a vagina and being slowly penetrated by a soft-skinned, hot and hard penis (although men still repulse me). i met this really cute guy 6 months ago and all i could think about was kissing his delicious lips and moving on from there. never happened before.
like i said, shifting sands... i wonder if this is all in my mind, awakened by all the great posts here or if it is real. i also wonder how more pronounced this could become with hrt. i know and have read how many girls here insist that hrt has zero bearing on sexual tendencies but just thinking about becoming more female makes me want to make love to a man more and more...

[HelloKitty]

You must be quite a bit older than your profile pic suggests...

I am indeedy. 35 I be.
And yupperz that is 100% me in my profile pic, but without a wig as I used to wear.
Just got my hair chemically straightened and am growing it out.