@Jane, I agree on you about the damn FEAR of losing sensivity and orgasms with a revision, unfortunately
I could not find any story or publication or whatever, to understand whether this concern is founded or not.
As for the rest, everybody lives with her dysphoria and accepts her being different her own way...
one who has accepted and metabolized her problem, as you did perhaps, can also accept to tell, while
somebody else, like me, who always aimed the negated normality, simply can't. And that is true also for
who started this topic, it seems. Then the greatest issue for those who can't tell is: are my genitals realistic
enough or rather they can rise suspects ? This is the point. It took me 10 years or so before realizing
mine are a mess. Other results I found on the Web are finer instead, some much finer.
@Shantel: yes that's the rule more or less UNTIL you find the man who wants to finger or lick you or so on,
and there're MANY. Well perhaps they still think they are doing something fine and pleasurable to you, but
then starts the nightmare if you're not passable.
I do know what means hearing words like "you're a little different, you're strange,..." etc. Your heart breaks.