Risky Question about MtF SRS

[teeg]

Hopefully this is ok to ask, but I haven't found much info around about it...

One of my biggest questions or concerns about SRS is about vaginal width or more specifically 'expansion'.

The reason I'm wondering is because my boyfriend is quite a big bigger than me down there, and if the surgery is basically an inversion of what I have, then I'd assume there could be a problem with him, "fitting" in me...

But of course I wouldn't want to be a certain width just to fit him... I'd really like if there was some, 'stretchiness', like there is naturally.

Anyone have any insight into this?

[mrs izzy]

There is a bit of stretchiness down there, not as much as a CIS female.

Depth and width will come from the dilations. The larger the dilator the more width you will be able to handle.

Isabell

[Vicky]

It will depend on the surgery technique.  Sooo Pick a doctor who uses a modified penile inversion technique or one where the scrotum becomes the major part of your vagina and your own penile girth is not the issue.  Most of my penile shaft went into my labia majora, and my labia minora were from the urethral mucosa part of my penis.  Thus again, my prior size had nothing to do with the finished product.  I am happy with my results, but at the minute do not have a boyfriend other than my dilators.

[Jenna Marie]

I'll second everyone else - prior size has nothing to do with final size (one of the women at Brassard's with me had 3" going in and got 6"of depth) and width in particular is established and can be increased by dilation. That's why they have you graduate up to bigger and bigger width dilators.   Also, a penis isn't hard unforgiving plastic, so there's usually a good chance of fitting a somewhat wider penis than the max dilator size to boot.

Personally, if I skip more than 2 days of dilation it's a bit of an effort to get the widest dilator back inside, so I'm assuming that a) my vagina reverts to a tighter size when not being stretched and b) it IS possible to stretch things painlessly, within reason. (I'm to the point where I'm only using the largest dilator and am supposed to be tapering down the number of sessions towards one per week, so this is different from immediately post-op when there's a smaller dilator to "get things ready" and a good chance of closing up if too many sessions are skipped. Basically, right now I'm experiencing more or less what a woman who had sex with a large guy every 2-3 days would.)

[Tristan]

Yeah I would say get larger sex toys ( dilator like) from those kinda of stores they tend to do the trick did me with learning expansions