Story of a disturbed boy

[Jessica Merriman]

Thanks, my Lord 

Oh great! We will never hear the end of this, huh Cindy?

[Emi]

Oh great! We will never hear the end of this, huh Cindy?

I don't understand...

[Jessica Merriman]

I don't understand...

You will when you get to know him better. Let's just say he is very sure of himself! *giggle* Nothing but love, KAT!

[Emi]

I don't get it...
I don't know KAT very much, too... ^^

[LordKAT]

I don't get it...
I don't know KAT very much, too... ^^

No worries, us KATs are just special is all.

[Donna Elvira]

Très perspicace Donna, j'ai grandi en Californie et étudié un peu le français à l'école mais aussi appris à partir d'un couple d'amis

Un ami était en fait canadienne, l'autre ami a grandi à Paris. C'était une sorte de compromis, j'aide avec l'anglais et ils m'ont enseigner le français

Mais c'était il ya des années, il est donc un peu difficile de se rappeler

J'espère que je ne fais pas trop mal

Tu t'en sors remarquablement bien, a fortiori si ton apprentissage s'est fait il y a des années. Bravo donc et maintenant que tu as repris le service, il n'y plus qu'à continuer...non? 
Bises
Donna

[Cindy]

Hi LonelyFrench,

Welcome to the site which is a mixture of lunacy and fun with a lot of help thrown in. Just join in when you wish. You can ask any questions you wish anywhere. Mods will move them to appropriate areas as needed. The forum areas are a guide for various topics that you may be interested in.

Many of us are close friends that have found each other here and we like to have a laugh and a joke between us so don't get put off by it!

Hugs

Cindy

[Luana]

Welcome to the forum.. I mean, the family
l also feel most of that you say, I also like girls and want to become a girl, just like you. I know, it's not easy, it's not being easy to me too.

By the way, I liked your english, but I'm from brasil, so this doesn't mean much 

[FalseHybridPrincess]

So you re welcoming her after 3 posts?

I though I was the only one who would do something that wierd 

what a joke machine I am ...

[Emi]

Thanks to all
Yeah I understand LordKAT is special 
Luana, welcome too   

[Emi]

So. Now I know. Or I think I know. Thank to FalsePrincess who just opened my eyes. (Love you, sis )
I know what I want, who I want to be and I've never felt so good. I know that I want to become a transwoman and that I now want to accept myself as I am. Now I have to find the force to tell it to my "real" family but now I think I'll find it. It'll may now be hard to find the way, because my "real" family is not always that comprehensive and I'll have to face kind of racism from idiot peoples who'll know who I was born but I'll find the force to face it and to find my way. I don't have yet all the informations that I'll may need during my "journey" but I'm sure I'll find them in the Family's threads

Thanks to Donna E too and to Jessica Merriman too ; speaking with you really helped me a lot in my decision
Thanks to the others who welcomed me too ; I didn't imagined that I'll be welcomed that good

Now if anyone has been doing his/her transition during his/her puberty, I need advises ^^

~ (Not so) LonelyFrench !

[Claire (formerly Magdalena)]

I'm so happy for you.  The first steps can be hard, but it's your life. You get to decide how you live it. We're all cheering you on!

[Emi]

Again, thanks.
I know it will be hard but I made a choice, I now have to do it.
I think the hardest thing will to speak to my "real" family ^^`

[Jessica Merriman]

/quote]
That was true for almost all of us here.

[Emi]

So I'm "normal" 

[Emi]

Good night, it's 2:28 a.m. in France 
~ L.

[LordKAT]

So I'm "normal" 

Very normal. It usually feels really good once you figure out who you are. You are right that it is hard to tell family and close friends. Whatever happens when you get the courage to do so, we will be here to help you through it. Sometimes it is useful to write out what you want to say. It can help your family to understand if you have a web site they can go to for information, or if you include a book that explains things. One site which can be helpful for families is  http://community.pflag.org/page.aspx?pid=256.

It is an American organization but if your family can understand English, it might help. Maybe there are French places like it.

[Emi]

Nope they dont speak english at all ^^'
Yet I haven't told my family. I had a bad day today at home... My parents always shout for nothing and says I'm not "normal" due to my behavior... So, again, I didn't find the courage to tell them... I'm a bit desperate about their comprehension.

[Donna Elvira]

Very normal. It usually feels really good once you figure out who you are. You are right that it is hard to tell family and close friends. Whatever happens when you get the courage to do so, we will be here to help you through it. Sometimes it is useful to write out what you want to say. It can help your family to understand if you have a web site they can go to for information, or if you include a book that explains things. One site which can be helpful for families is  http://community.pflag.org/page.aspx?pid=256.

It is an American organization but if your family can understand English, it might help. Maybe there are French places like it.

Hi Kat
I have sent our young friend links to a couple of specialized French language sites that target families and suggested she go through them first herself to sort out some of her own thoughts. As she comes across as a particularly bright young person, I find it hard to imagine that her parents can be too dumm either so maybe if she herself finds the right words, she can quickly initiate a constructive dialogue with them.
Hugs
Donna

[Emi]

Again thanks Donna

Is there in Susan's Place anyone who started her/his transition during her/his puberty ? (S)he could help me a lot.

EDIT : I'll ask FalsePrincess