Hi Tessa ... Thanks for the description for others who may not know the basics of the activity. I would suggest that any of our brothers & sisters who might be interested seek to find a Gay & Lesbian club in their area. There are numerous people at the MIT club that even though is not listed as a Gay & Lesbian club wear skirts, some wear makeup, some may be transitioning ... I don't know ... and it does not bother anyone ... It's a neat place for people to socialize ... My wife and I go when we can, and we will be attending the National Gay & Lesbian Square Dance Convention in Salt Lake City next summer ... I'd like to see more of "us" there. In fact, if Susan's site is interested, the administrators may want to "advertise" that this site exists to help any of the attendees who may be interested ... Roberto