Hi Allyda,
Thank you for your very sweet compliment! I get mad at myself sometimes over how ignorant I can still be about feminine things, but like you, I didn't start till later in life. After I sat down on New Year's Eve afternoon, I really pulled my hair all the way back and looked objectively at my hair and scalp and realized how far I've blown my hair loss out of proportion. On being ignorant of lots of girl things, I've been finding that some of the tutorials on youtube are indispensable, not only for women like us, but for all sorts of girls and women, because there are some tutorials with 8,000,000 views and more. They're just about braiding, or how to use a curling iron or curlers properly, etc. I watched a few yesterday, and one, called "Sock Curls"/Easy No Heat Curls- by Cute Girl's Hairstyles has had 3,000,000 views and talk about an easy way to get really wonderful curls! There are hundreds or thousands of makeup tutorials, hair coloring tutorials, many of them by the companies who make and market these products, all professionally done videos. And there are really cute, funny videos by 13-17 year old girls who know sooo much about makeup and hair it just blows me away. Allyda, I think I just read that you're just beginning your HRT, and I'm really happy for you. I've been on HRT now for 29 months, the quickest 29 months of my life by far, probably because I've been happier than I ever thought possible. Also, for the first time since I was a child I've been alive and happy about it and I look forward to the next day too. I'm sure it took you a great deal of suffering and heartache to get to the point of HRT, but rarely have I heard or read where a TS woman felt she made the wrong decision in moving forward. Congratulations and God bless you! Once again, thank you for your compliment. Hugs, Mira