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What are your resolutions and plans for 2014?

Started by KabitTarah, December 30, 2013, 01:02:56 PM

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KabitTarah

I have a few overall resolutions...


  • To bring my lunch at least 3 days a week (preferably 4).
  • To be strong and transition gracefully.
  • To get in shape (half the work was already done in 2013 :)).
  • To love my family and keep it as whole as possible.


My plans for 2014?

I've just started HRT. I will continue it, getting to a full E dose by early summer.

My family will find a resolution. I don't know what it is yet. I would like to stay, but my wife is unhappy and I'd like that to change. I want to be her friend and I don't know if that's possible and I doubt it's possible while I'm transitioning. I will work with her and support her in any way I can. I will ensure my children, especially my son (8 ), have the support and love, and also the therapy they need to work through my transition and any family changes we go through.

I will give my extended family attention and ensure they have everything they need to move beyond tolerance and into accepting that I am female.

I will work with HR and management to find training opportunities and/or develop materials myself to describe my changes and what that means for the organization. I will come out at work FT as early as this summer and as late as early-2015.
~ Tarah ~

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Amelia Pond

My family's resolution is to have a better year. This year was difficult due to my coming out but we're ending 2013 as a united, happy family so this is very doable. :)

My personal resolutions will be to have voice surgery at Yeson and have SRS. In all honesty, there is little chance of these not happening next year.  ;D

I'm also going to try to go back to school... again and finish my degrees.
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bethany

My resolutions for 2014 is to continue where 2013 is leaving off.
Still trying to get to my goal weight of 145 only a few pounds to go.
Have my breasts grow into a C cup. LOL
Continue to turn this nursing home upside down. LOL
And last but not least is to make 2014 the best year of my life.
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Jill F

OK, I'll bite.

Putting holiday weight on was a lot of fun.  It mostly went to my butt and thighs, which makes me look a lot more femme from behind.

I need to lose like 40 pounds now.  20 pounds of fat, 20 pounds of muscle.  I can probably still bench press over 200 pounds *sigh* after I stupidly spent the summer of '12 doing physical labor every day and turned into a beefcake.  So, I'm going to start a two month mostly vegetarian diet this week, hike 4 miles almost every day and do as much cardio as I can.  I'm hoping that I can dump 2-3 pounds a week for the first 8 weeks and that these habits become ingrained enough to lose a pound per week thereafter. 

I'm getting some work done on mah face in (hopefully) March.  Apparently I don't need any of the typical FFS procedures.  My wife has more of a brow ridge and adam's apple than I do, but I still need a few things lifted, tweaked and sucked.  While I'm under, I will have the orchi done.

I'm going to Napa Valley for my 20th wedding anniversary and am trying to have an initial consult with Dr. Bowers at that time.

My legal name and gender marker change hearing is in July.  My wife knows the judge personally, so I'm hoping there will be no issues.

Other than that, I just want to have another year of being honest and true to myself and be able to Jillax with my wonderful wife.

If 2014 makes a difference like 2013 did, I am in for a treat.   I hope I can finish laser and electro this year as well.
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Miss_Bungle1991

The only plan I have is playing or putting on another show sometime this year. When that will be? Who knows? Where will it be? No idea. I don't think I will do it around here again, though.
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Constance

I had a really good 2013 and as a result, I'm in a place where I think I can make a concerted effort to live the Gifts of Advent (Hope, Peace, Joy, Love) all year round.

At least, I'm going to try.

Tamara Thor

My only resolution is to just be myself and focus on my own wellbeing. That's enough for now.
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LordKAT

Anything I can to get myself put back together, especially if it can speed up fixing the rest of me.
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Emo

No resolutions but my plans are:
Move out of my parents house
Start hrt
Become a paid youtuber
Go to college
Find a better job
Learn to play my guitar
Get better at drawing
Actually use my expensive camera
Finish my novel(s)
Find out who i really am

Busybusybusy
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Danielle Emmalee

My 2014 resolution is to have a resolution for each month instead of a bunch for the whole year.  January is to come out to at least 1 important person in my life.
Discord, I'm howlin' at the moon
And sleepin' in the middle of a summer afternoon
Discord, whatever did we do
To make you take our world away?

Discord, are we your prey alone,
Or are we just a stepping stone for taking back the throne?
Discord, we won't take it anymore
So take your tyranny away!
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Emo

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Flan

Soft kitty, warm kitty, little ball of fur. Happy kitty, sleepy kitty, purr, purr, purr.
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FalseHybridPrincess

Quote from: Emo on December 31, 2013, 12:00:00 AM
No resolutions but my plans are:
Move out of my parents house
Start hrt
Become a paid youtuber
Go to college
Find a better job
Learn to play my guitar
Get better at drawing
Actually use my expensive camera
Finish my novel(s)
Find out who i really am

Busybusybusy

I am a paid youtuber...I get like 1 euro a month (  :laugh: ) ...becoming a super hot girl seems far easier than making money from youtube dear ... :/

Anyway my resolution is to be able to do lots of things as myself this year...
go to my japanese classes as a girl
find a band as a girl
go out...
go to places...
go to university...
maybe start music school again with my cousin...

just live my life basically...
http://falsehybridprincess.tumblr.com/
Follow me and I ll do your dishes.

Also lets be friends on fb :D
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Emo

@princess
I gots ideas to get sponsors doe. :p

Ive always wanted to learn japanese.
And join a band.. Basically everything you mentioned... Basically...
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Cindy

OK I have been thinking.

Commit to GCS and I will need help for that from my friends here as I am frightened.
Take a sky dive (thank you Jenny07!)
Try to be a better person and forgive others
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LordKAT

Quote from: Cindy on December 31, 2013, 03:29:14 AM
OK I have been thinking.

Commit to GCS and I will need help for that from my friends here as I am frightened.
Take a sky dive (thank you Jenny07!)
Try to be a better person and forgive others

How do you get better than the best?

Huggles, fur defeats fear.
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laure_natasha

My resolutions are :
- to come out again to my wife, she has known since before we were married that I am transgendered but not that I need to transition. Not sure that it will go down well at all.
- to start hair removal and replacement
- start HRT

I just hope this year I can overcome the fear and start to be me.
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laure_natasha

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KabitTarah

Quote from: laure_natasha on December 31, 2013, 06:51:15 AM
Oh and I want to learn to fly!

All it takes is happy thoughts..... and a little fairy dust.

(or just miss the ground... so I've read).
~ Tarah ~

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JRD

No resolutions, just hoping it will be a better year for me.
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