I think this RealLife test thing is blown up way more than it needs to be. Im from Milwaukee, and i found it easy, too easy to walk outside in geisha and not feel outta place. Aside from the cat calls and the ppl honking and screaming out their cars, its nothing. My first day at work as Chanel, i will admit i was nervous, being the first trans woman at this establishment that catered to an urban audience. But my manager and HR were very comfortable with letting me be me, and even allowing me to access the female facilities. My co-workers still treat me the same, like nothing has changed and im glad. I guess my only advice is to carry yourself with more confidence then when u were, and nobody will be able to spook you.