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Antisocial while transitioning?

Started by shanetastic, September 18, 2007, 11:09:35 PM

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nickie

I have always met interesting people, no matter where I go, before and after beginning transition. I tried being a hermit once before I transitioned, and it was no good. I find that I have been received by others just as well this way, as I was before, if not better. I have about the same number of friends now, but am closer to more of them. It could have to do with age, the fact that I am not hiding, and maybe because women tend to forge tighter bonds.
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Hypatia

Quote from: nickie on September 22, 2007, 12:31:22 PM
and maybe because women tend to forge tighter bonds.
That is very significant! Openly living my womanhood, I felt freer to be close to people. Especially other women. Poor men don't know what they're missing.
Here's what I find about compromise--
don't do it if it hurts inside,
'cause either way you're screwed,
eventually you'll find
you may as well feel good;
you may as well have some pride

--Indigo Girls
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shanetastic

Well my best friend just moved away today :(

So I need to work at this social life thing, even if I am only going to be living here for another 4 months.  Either way I don't think I'd be able to make it that long without friends to hang out with.  Any ideas on where I can attempt to try to make new friends?
trying to live life one day at a time
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