I have always met interesting people, no matter where I go, before and after beginning transition. I tried being a hermit once before I transitioned, and it was no good. I find that I have been received by others just as well this way, as I was before, if not better. I have about the same number of friends now, but am closer to more of them. It could have to do with age, the fact that I am not hiding, and maybe because women tend to forge tighter bonds.