In past 4 months i have went from i am bigender thats ok !! To more female would be great .seeing what the gals here have done ( cool i want to move in that direction ) .My talks and actions with my wife about this is been positive so far .We were looking at then and now photos ,both of us realizing this is where i am bound. Will my work allow this?? yes 90 % if do my home work and get hr involved ( any pointers girls ) I am mechanic for city .I will still have all my skills and past work history .I am 50 so lifting and throwing weight around has been less (use brain not back ) . Oh the only mechanic for very large fleet . (has any girls here been down this road } .Starting hrt in about month and already growing hair out /ears pierced / hair color bosses are see all this with only few questions ( always answer this IS the new me ).I am lucky we have our own restrooms that have stalls .That will help as other ladies have been down there ( in basement ).Writing this has me thinking next week to take my boss aside and run this by him ( hes help with some life changing problems before ) WHAT YOU THINK GIRLS ?? As i have wrote before my kids all but gone {one flew the nest and other going to college but living at home.she helps me alot ) My dads only closes family member thats not aware of my journey but i have decided that its my life and he will have to love and learn ( i hope his 74 year old mind can wrap around it ) May be my first hard lose . What are some of the negatives that has not been talk about before ? I have found relaxing and happy place that i have never felt before (note have had lifes lows and highs but over all normal life style ) .Hope i didnt bore you ladies .all responses are welcome .Troi