Hi Emma, I have the same issue with hairloss on the top, and have been shaving it clean for several years. A while back I tried growing it out a bit to see if there is any co ering I could do, but it didn't look like it, so after about 6-7months, I shaved it off again.
The dysphoria when looking at myself in the mirror with the extremely obvious male patter baldness is too much, but I am trying it again now, and hopefully I can get it longer this time around to see if I could possibly fit a partial wig or something like that.
What I have notice through the years is shaved clean=wig fits better but my head sweats more.