So, my wife and I met on middle ground and I decided not to fully transition, but my wife will allow me to be Chelsea both at home and out in public. So what I'm wondering is how other non transitioning people deal with bring out in public as their preferred gender. What do u do about bathrooms, and changing rooms (like at a clothing store) . They are, at least in a mtf case, private enough that no one would "get a glance ". Any thoughts, and has anyone gotten a carry letter without committing to hormones?