Sexual Preference

[Jill F]

I've said it before and I'll say it again-  Once you're trans, you're already way beyond queer anyway.  Whom I find attractive is all in the noise now.  I certainly don't care if I'm labeled "gay".  I'm married to a woman, she is my soulmate.   I always found women attractive and I never wanted to pursue a guy-guy relationship before I came out.  I just never thought anal or oral with a gay guy was for me.   I have quite a few gay friends, but I just can't picture having sex with them (nor they with me, I'd assume!)

However, if I was packing a vajayjay, the game changes a bit.  I can totally picture having sex with a straight guy if that was the case.  I still like girls, but getting stuffed by a fat stiffie suddenly sounds kinda sexy.  I could also picture myself with a transguy, transgirl or androgyne.

So I'm sorta pansexual.  BFD.  I'm queer as all hell and proud of it.

[stephaniec]

I've said it before and I'll say it again-  Once you're trans, you're already way beyond queer anyway.  Whom I find attractive is all in the noise now.  I certainly don't care if I'm labeled "gay".  I'm married to a woman, she is my soulmate.   I always found women attractive and I never wanted to pursue a guy-guy relationship before I came out.  I just never thought anal or oral with a gay guy was for me.   I have quite a few gay friends, but I just can't picture having sex with them (nor they with me, I'd assume!)

However, if I was packing a vajayjay, the game changes a bit.  I can totally picture having sex with a straight guy if that was the case.  I still like girls, but getting stuffed by a fat stiffie suddenly sounds kinda sexy.  I could also picture myself with a transguy, transgirl or androgyne.

So I'm sorta pansexual.  BFD.  I'm queer as all hell and proud of it.

yea, the vagina is a game changer

[Annabelle]

Haha peky XD

[Miss_Bungle1991]

yea, the vagina is a game changer

Nah. It wouldn't be for me. No matter if I was born a genetic female or if I had GRS, I would never want anything to do with a guy.

Yuck....

[Tori]

Nah. It wouldn't be for me. No matter if I was born a genetic female or if I had GRS, I would never want anything to do with a guy.

Yuck....

Oh, Laura... it is time to say it... forgive me but... I... can... not... resist...

I thought squirrels liked nuts.

(Rimshot)

(Tori blushes and exits awkwardly.)

[Miss_Bungle1991]

Oh, Laura... it is time to say it... forgive me but... I... can... not... resist...

I thought squirrels liked nuts.

(Rimshot)

(Tori blushes and exits awkwardly.)

Nope. This squirrel is a strict vagetarian.

[Tori]

You frequently brighten my day Laura. This is one of those times.

Aloha,
Tori

[Miss_Bungle1991]

You frequently brighten my day Laura. This is one of those times.

Aloha,
Tori

Cool. But I was hoping you would have asked the $64,000 question. 

[LivingTheDream]

This is where I stand on this, pre-everything. As of right now, I'm 100% into girls; I just find them so attractive and beautiful, but the act of sex as a man doesn't seem too appealing to me. The thought of being with a guy atm is eww, yucky, totally not into it. However, I have thought about this very thing recently, and realized, if I do transition, the thought of being with a guy becomes more appealing, I guess, as long as I have the proper parts  . So I guess that makes me bi as a women, straight as a guy.

[Allyda]

It's women for me all the way. If that makes me a lesbian then so be it. However right now and for nearly the last 20 years my sex drive has been Zero. Way before hrt.

Something I read earlier interested me a little. I know some of you have heard me say this before -maybe your even getting tired of hearing it. But even as a child, during my teen years, through adulthood and still today I've always had the body shape of a girl: narrow shoulders, thin arms, long legs, and hips, very small wrists and ankles, naturally long eyelashes, etc. I just wonder If I'm KS. It was even suggested to my adoptive parents once I may have an extra X cromazone -that I'm XXY, though I never heard of KS until reading a little about it in this thread. Oh well, it's something for me to look into.

Back to our topic I done expect my attraction to women will ever change even after SRS. The thought of sleeping with a naked man, well, is discusting -Ew!

[Tori]

Cool. But I was hoping you would have asked the $64,000 question. 

And, the $64,000 question is...

Are YOU nuts?

30 seconds.

:p

[big kim]

I'm bi but it's been 9 years since I had a relationship(with an M2F) who was mad as a bag of badgers.I'm also 56 so it's not going to happen again

[JaneNicole2013]

I was bi before I started. But lately, I find that although I will appreciate how a woman looks, I am pretty damn man crazy. I check out every man I see, and honestly can't wait until I have the anatomy and passability to start dating.

This is exactly how I feel as well.

[kathyk]

I'm bi but it's been 9 years since I had a relationship(with an M2F) who was mad as a bag of badgers.I'm also 56 so it's not going to happen again

It seems a lot of us older women feel this way.  My wife told me more than a year ago that our marriage was going to end, and that she worried I'd find someone else while we were still together.  Other than being married we really haven't had a relationship since I came out to her 20 plus years ago.  I've been separated from her for a month now, and it's strange to think I'd even want to find a partner, or that there'd be anyone willing to put up with me in a relationship.  Being alone and stressed is incredibly difficult sometimes.

[Lady_Oracle]

About to be two years on hrt and my attraction for women is as strong as ever. In some aspects even more intense than pre-hrt. Regarding men I still don't find them emotionally attractive. I guess the physical attraction for them is there but its nowhere near the level of attraction I have for women. So yeah currently I identify as a lesbian 

[Ltl89]

I'm straight and have been that way both before and after hrt.  While I can find beauty in other women, I simply can't lust after them and/or desire romance with one.  It's unfortunate because I feel like dating a women would be less complicated than being with men, lol.  Oh well, I'm hoping there will be some straight guy that will be willing to date a girl like me.

[Jenna Marie]

I got confused at first and thought this was about what orientation I wanted my *partners* to have. Oops.

I was bi before HRT and I'm bi after, though my attraction to men went from like 10% to 25% of my orientation. (As others have said, it's a totally different context to be wanted as a woman by a straight guy. I saw men I admired pre-HRT, but never had the fluttery experience of one flirting with me [unless he was gay, and no thanks].)

[Michelle69]

I'm straight and have been that way both before and after hrt.  While I can find beauty in other women, I simply can't lust after them and/or desire romance with one.  It's unfortunate because I feel like dating a women would be less complicated than being with men, lol.  Oh well, I'm hoping there will be some straight guy that will be willing to date a girl like me.

This, definitely this. While I have no desire to date a girl, I have no real desire to date a gay guy either.

I got confused at first and thought this was about what orientation I wanted my *partners* to have. Oops.

I was bi before HRT and I'm bi after, though my attraction to men went from like 10% to 25% of my orientation. (As others have said, it's a totally different context to be wanted as a woman by a straight guy. I saw men I admired pre-HRT, but never had the fluttery experience of one flirting with me [unless he was gay, and no thanks].)

I had my first fluttery experience with a guy(straight), about a month ago. My job requires the hair to be above the collar, but I've always pushed the limit of what I could get away with. This time it was almost to my shoulders before I got it cut. The next day at work, several guys were standing outside my office picking on me(awww, isn't she cute & I hope your boyfriend doesn't mind), when one came into my office and started rubbing my head and the back of my neck. He is not even that good looking but very masculine. My god! I got real warm, everything else faded away, my lips parted just a little and it was all I could do to keep a moan from escaping the back of my throat. I still don't know if any of them notice my reaction, my pupils must have seriously dilated because it took me a while to focus. I've known all of them for many years, been fishing with them and went to two of their weddings. They all treat me the same as they did before anyway.

So, yeah, I've felt the flutter. 

[Miss_Bungle1991]

And, the $64,000 question is...

Are YOU nuts?

30 seconds.

:p

Sure...but just a little. 

Actually, the correct question would have been: "Who is the other half in this vagetarian equation?"

[Jenna Marie]

Michelle : OK, that sounds a lot better than anything I've experienced so far. (Which is fine, really - I'm married!)