Not sure if this might be suited for real-life experience or legal matters, but I figured some things I'm concerned about might concern legal matters.
I've taken my transition in gradual steps, being on hormones for a while, slowly transitioning into more feminine clothes, feminine grooming, FFS soon, etc.
But lately, many people have referred to me as, "miss", "young lady", and such. While that feels incredibly awesome, sometimes it's been awkward when I then use my boy name... The thing is that some people, especially at my work, are not aware of my transition. They figure me as a feminine boy or twink or something. One thing of concern to me was if I changed my name legally, how might that affect things like my pay check, etc. that?
I have all the paperwork filled out for the court, just not sure when I should submit them...
In short, it's awkward in many instances at the moment to still use my boy name while the rest of my transition moves forward, but potentially it might also be a little awkward with my girl name for people who don't know of my transition yet...
Does anyone have any experience or insight about when to change your name?