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Why Aren't You Transitioning?

Started by LearnedHand, November 29, 2013, 01:00:32 AM

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Why are you not transitioning? (can pick more than one)

Medical reasons
Religious/Cultural reasons
Family or Social reasons
Monetary reasons or job (in)security
Feel comfortable having a body that doesn't match my gender
Being afraid or I think I am too old
I plan on transitioning, just haven't started yet
I am transitioning, or already have, and just wanted to see the results
Other (please explain below)

Jamie D

Quote from: Aisla on January 31, 2014, 04:57:36 PM
I am transitioning and always will be.

This answer caught my attention.  It is much like the philosophical issue I discussed with Metta Anatta, concerning the "Ship of Thesus" paradox.

I selected "other."  As someone who seems to be genderfluid, unless I was a shape-shifter, is their a body that works for me??

Furthermore, I see transition as happening on multiple levels: physical; mental; emotional; spiritual.  For me, not all are "in sync."
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JustEmily

Quote from: Jamie D ... adios on March 12, 2014, 03:22:42 AM
Furthermore, I see transition as happening on multiple levels: physical; mental; emotional; spiritual.  For me, not all are "in sync."

What a wonderful way to look at this.  I agree completely.  Mental and spiritual take the front seat for me.  It is not so important right now that the physical matches up completely as long as the people in my life that really matter know and can accept me for who I truly am. 

Changing the exterior, or the "flesh suit" is less important than realizing who I am right now.
Not all who wander are lost.

-JRR Tolkien
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