My mother brought to light the subject of how I have been dressing as of late. She says that I'm pretty, but by wearing boy clothes I make myself look bad. I told her that I like dressing like that quite often, and she said she finds it 'weird'. For someone who claims to care so much about my happiness, I find it absurd and gross that she's being so judgemental about my identity. I'm not sure if it's because she hoped to have a daughter instead of the gender-fluctuating offspring she got, or because she simply doesn't understand me. Anyway, I'm pretty bummed out now. My brother wasn't much of a help, either.