Quote from: Gigi_J on April 22, 2014, 09:18:08 AM
Great read Clea!
As I'm someone considering Suporn (and Brassard) for my SRS it was great to hear the extra pain and stress during recovery often reported by Suporn patients was worth it in the end and I'd be lying if part of my research didn't involve the nitty gritty of sexual function (!) as I'm counting on being able to use mine with men in the future quite a lot...make up for lost time..or something like that!! It was great to hear that guy couldn't get enough of you and that part of you
Any other details you'd like to share about sensation for instance (particularly sensation inside the vagina...I know some girls who have said it feels pretty numb in there...although this may be due to numbness in early recovery)...and general experience during intercourse, I'd love to hear!
Gigi
Hi Gigi,
Well with your stunning beauty, I think you are going to make up for lost time just like that ;-) You are a heterosexual young woman and you are going to be sexually active with men. You're going to encounter men with average size penises but girl you're going to get men with very big ones too, if like me and you are into Italians, you need to go for DEPTH! I won't tell you who to go to except get the surgeon that is going to give the most depth as possible. It's not a joke, I've heard of girls who spent 25k going to North American surgeons ending up with 4.5" depth. With that kind of depth, any girls who is sexually active with men is going to get hang ups for sure.
On sensations, my clitoris has been very sensitive day one. Dr Suporn told me word for word, no sexual dreams for the first few weeks, I thought this was a little odd, I just had surgery but indeed, one week post-op going back to the hotel my clitoris and that part inside was very sensitive and I was often aroused sexually.
I still believe there is a major difference between girls who are circumcized, mostly north American girls and girls who are not, European, Asian and South American girls.
So I'm still seeing two men. Guy #1 loves loves loves to go down on me. As a matter of fact now I let him enjoy my kitty for hours, it's very pleasurable. On penetration, no orgasm yet but a lot more pleasure than the very first times, I'm getting there ;-)
Guy#2 who has a larger penis hurt me the other day, but that was my fault, even if I'm going to be 8 months post-op in a couple of weeks or so, I didn't dilate at all beforehand like I always do, an hour or two before intercourse. Since he's more aggressive than guy#1, he went all the way deep inside a little too fast. He noticed he hurt me, I had to tell him to be gentle please. On this I put more Astroglide inside of me, I told him my gynecologist recommended I use it because I've had painful intercourse since I had an abortion. His only complaint was I used to much of the gel, he couldn't feel me inside. It took him a good half hour to come.
So as you can see, I'm still learning, what to do, what not to do.
In the end, I'm glad I waited 6 months to have intercourse, I don't think it'd had been possible before that. At almost 8 months post-op now, intercourse with men beats by far dilation sessions with the dilators. I realised that two weeks ago as I didn't have sex for a whole week, I thought my vagina got a little tighter again. Also now the day after sex, my dilation sessions are amazing, the opening is wider than ever, I reach a good 6" almost immediately and I go to full depth, 7.25" for me, in about one minute.