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so apparently I can't pass as a boy anymore xD

Started by jussmoi4nao, April 15, 2014, 01:15:57 PM

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jussmoi4nao

Okaay, soo, I don't really try to pass as a boy, ever, anymore. I mean I go out in slobby, boyish clothes with no o makeup and pass as female every time but to me that's just slobby girl mode. And like just recently my mom had to introduce me to someone as a boy, and I was wearing veryy boyish clothes and the girl kept calling me "her/she" and then finally when I leave she asks my sister "why does everyone call your sister a boy? Does she ask you to?" lool. But I chalk a lot of that off to voice and mannerisms, usually, cuz facially even if I'm pretty, without makeup I sorta feel like i look androgynish or like a very very young boy (like 12 loo).

Anywhoozle, the other day I took some very boyish pics. I wore a boys shirt and put my hair under a hat, cuz I'm just curious. So I joined a couple dating sites. One was for gay males the other was for everybody. Wellll, I was pretty much ignored on the gay one haha. Only a few people messaged and they all asked if I was a girl or FtM and  whyy was I on a gay dating site if I'm a girl, hahah. It was actually pretty hilarious.

Then on the other, I listed myself as male, but tonns of straightguys ended ip hitting on me cuz they missed the male part. A couple even got mildly upset when I was like "read the fine print". One was like "No way, oops! I actually thought you were hot, wow" then another was like "Are kidding me here? I was actually going to go for you" hahah, but yeah.

I'm not sure how I feel about this. On one hand I'm really really glad, but on the other I'm a teeny bit claustrophobic tbh and im not 100% sure why. Its weird.

Anyway that was sort of a pointless post but I thought id share something happy that happened in my life gus im a bit of a downer on here 99% of the time
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missy1992

lol must be nice.
I guess since you (And I) transitioned relatively early there are advantages to that in the looks department.
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Joanna Dark

Quote from: Abbyxo on April 15, 2014, 01:15:57 PM
I'm not sure how I feel about this. On one hand I'm really really glad, but on the other I'm a teeny bit claustrophobic tbh and im not 100% sure why. Its weird.

I have the same problem. Well i wouldn't call it a problem lol but the whole weird  claustophobic thingy I get. I've tried passing as a boy by not shaving for days (but i have sparse facial hair as is), no makeup, andro clothes (don't own anything boyish so it was as close as I could get) and still, it's all miss, miss, miss, mama, young lady, miss, little mama, mama, mami, sweatheart. I like little mama. In fact, i ovelovelove when people call me it. It's always been like my dream and now I've achieved it and I'm like wait, what? But i guess if this is my biggest problem my life somehow becmae really awesome. I'm female Barney from HIMYM. or Robin.

The one problem with passing so well and looking pretty is that now women come up to me all the time. Literally, I talk to like five women a day. On the El today this woman started a convo with me telling me about her kids and how im so young and I should make sure i finish college so i dont have to depend on a man and whatever I do don't get preggers. She was telling me all sorts of stuff. She was really nice though. It was fun. Then this other women came up and joined in. But luckly we started talking about her hair, she was black and didn't have a weave but had this orange hair and it was so so so pretty. Both me and the other woman were gushing over her hair. We musta made the lady's day. Today is the the the first time i didnt freeze up and be all, er, um, eck, er, meh, bye.

I think i need a crash course in OBGYN talk in case it comes up so i dont look like a weirdo. But i know a lot already from my jealous past so...yeah.
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Mermaid

Well, that's what you get for being so pretty =P Go you!
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Sophia Hawke

After 2 and a half Moon the on hrt I was no longer able to pass as a guy.   Now I have trou me going to the bank and Post office haha
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