Relationships and being Ts

[lolli]

I have met a lovely young woman whom I like alot and I have been seeing her for a few months now.
I explained to her about being Ts and asked her about her feelings with regards to me dressing as a woman and being around her.
She so far she is quite relaxed about it, and says she would help me in areas where I need to learn how to dress and apply makeup.
So far I beleive she has been very honest with me and made me feel relaxed about myself, however only time will tell about her true thoughts and feelings with me being ts.
I hope that she will consent to come to visits with my therapist so that she will have a better understanding of being ts, and I have given her the book true selfs to read.
She also asked me for information on sites I am a member of so that she could get more information on the various issues that she may face as they arise.
So with that in mind I said she should join this site, as this site is very helpfull and I am sure when she posts questions about learning about the various issues she needs answers to, the family on here will help her.
As a group where would you advise her to start reading topics on being in a relationship with a ts mtf ?

[Ms Bev]

Hi lolli.....

The first places I would have her go at Susans are 1.)  Introductions,  2.) 

wiki,  3.)  Sexuality Forum,  4.)  Significant Others Forum

This should be a good start.  Let her look around, and get involved in areas that interest her.  Have her check the Web Directories, on the main page.  If you plan on grs, I would at some time have her investigate this, and learn what it is you might be going through.
In short, be open, and honest.  Of course, there is always a risk in being very open in relatively new relationships.  Use your judgement.


Wishing all the best for you both,

Bev