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Started by TRyan, April 17, 2014, 09:41:23 PM

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helen2010

A good question.  Problems are created and imagined by me, by others, by communities and by biology.  Now if they were not being created then there wouldn't be any problems.  I Like the thought experiment  and would like to live in this place/space.   I am actively looking for the road to take me there.  I think that I have found a way forward but have only taken the first few steps.

Aisla
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Ltl89

Quote from: rrecroc on April 21, 2014, 01:17:19 AM
And Who Really Creates the Problems We Have To Deal With ?????

Who Usually Creates Most of Your Problems ??

What If : Nobody noticed/cared who you had sex with (male, female,trans, or whatever) and how many you had sex with ......

And ...... Nobody cared how you dressed and what you looked like ......

What If ?? , you were raised to believe any combination of the above factors was normal ......

Would you still have a problem ??

I'll try to answer this for myself.  Sexuality is irrelevant to me.  It wouldn't be easy living life as a gay man, but hell that would be much easier than being a straight transwoman.  In fact, I worry a lot more about finding love as a girl than a boy.  More roadblocks.   Right now, it's harder being a straight mtf than a gay guy, so the fact that no one would care about my sexuality doesn't change my decision or sway me to live "male"

If no one cared what I looked like or dressed, I would be so much happier.  I'm very aware of my appearance and it sucks.  That doesn't change my gender identity or who I am though.  It just mkaes me feel a little better about having less pressure.  And this is something I would feel regardless of which gender I was living as.  This is about feeling that I can be myself and be free.  However, having less social pressure would make things easy.  I mean if I could be a "boy" that lived and looked exactly like a woman, I guess that wouldn't be so bad.  I still feel that I would like to be viewed as female, but hell that kind of "male" life wouldn't be as dysphoric as my current one.  Then again, I don't really look or live like a typical guy, and that is all soon to permanently change.
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Terracotta

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Alright, I retract my plea for softer language in an attempt to quell potential offense, you're right, truth is more important. I read through the study you posted, as well as several follow up studies, and my opinions on this are now varied. What you're suggesting, is essentially, that neurological gender identity relates, or at least is affected by (or perhaps affects) sexual orientation. Thus, neurologically, androphilic men should have more in common with androphilic women, than gynephilic men (general assumption).

A study that does coroberate that seems to be a study on transmen (https://docs.google.com/file/d/0B007WHZsf9YfR0I2MTFWd0lFc2s/edit?pli=1). In this, white matter microstructures were studied and gynephilic transmen were shown to have brain structures which resembled masculine brains more so than feminine brains. This shows a link between sexual orientation and gendered brain structure. The same is shown in the study you posted, in which gynephilic transwomen were shown to share structural links to gynephilic men, over androphilic women. You stated that the subjects show no feminization in the brain, which is outright wrong, but perhaps you were just zealously selling the point.

There wasn't an ideological motivation, I followed an informal theoretical pathway - gathering evidence and then forming a point of view. The caption which supersedes the link to the article is a copy and paste from an article referencing the study. I didn't feel like delving into that information when it was a dot point to tie-in the perspective put forward.

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I thought I'd point that out for those who don't follow up and read the papers. In all the studies, trans people are shown to sit somewhere in between the two gendered brain structures, either leaning more toward one gender or the other,

No, the study I linked you to illustrated no feminisation but a separate neural aspect. Therefore not -all- studies proclaim androgyny. But I do agree/believe neural androgyny waivers between individuals and that neurological studies, due to the complexity of the brain - it's not possible to measure absolute everything.

Quotebut never really completely within the other gender (for example, androphilic transwomen share more in common with androphilic women than gynephilic transwomen do, but all three have very different structures, androphilic transwomen do not have completely feminized brains, and do not sit in the same category as natal androphilic women). All of these studies are pre-hormones, so that may change things as well, but I suppose for the sake of this discussion that's irrelevant.

A problem I do have with the studies so far is the lack of diversity in the sample groups, which could really change things. For example, where is the study comparing androphilic men, androphilic women, androphilic transmen, and androphilic transwomen? And then the reverse (gynephilic men, women, transmen, and transwomen) and then the comparative study between both of those studies? What about bisexuality? Including these things would truly create a trans spectrum in which a lot more of this would become clear. There are certainly feminine androphilic men, but then there are also very masculine androphilic men - would they each have different brain structures that sit on opposite ends of the trans spectrum? And do I, as a gynephilic transwoman, have more in common neurologically with gynephilic men, or gynephilic women? I'd posture the latter, but there is no study yet which has attempted to have a look at this link. 

I think it can possibly be gathered that brain areas can co-operate with independant gender persuasions interlocking into one being. But - attraction to the andro is a feminine neurological trait, perhaps it can operate in isolation of other gender-persuaded parts of the brain, but suggestions so far is that it doesn't and may even be relating to connections between certain areas and not an enlargement or decrease in matter. It must also be taken into account that many studies gathered on transgender neurology is from people on cross-hormone therapy, leading them to be obsolete. Although I believe neural androgyny exists in persuasions exist, I don't believe in the credibility of studies (being most of them) which can't be credited for with samples already undergone cross hormone therapy.

QuoteRegardless, ALL of this suggests fundamental differences in brain structure which would have a biological basis, or in the very least, biological and perhaps partially psychological. The study you posted showed differences in transwomen's putamens and thalamus', and since they are not susceptible to neurological processes (aka brain plasticity), this suggests innate biological basis for trans conditions. None of this suggests biological gender is fluid (which you said in your follow up you agreed with partially), simply that gender identity relates to sexual orientation and neurological structure and chemistry, which is very interesting in my opinion.

Gender persuasion doesn't make a straight-forward proclamation of biological neurology in gender, simply persuasions. Possibly in people, the development of the frontal lobe overcomes the decision-making and self-conceptualisation mechanisms rendering a level of thought abstraction which then experiences only mild levels of "feeling" persuasions of gender orientation into their being.

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In the end, what I take from all this is none of these things are purely psychological, but have biological basis'. What makes me a female on the inside is more than culture, more than brain structure, and more than life events. I'm coming to realize it's probably a mixture of all three.

Agreed, with the addition that my point of view on the psychological basis is also partially influenced by the countless people who have undergone HRT and SRS to only proclaim they see themselves as non-binary, not because of the ineffectiveness of the surgery to assimilate themselves into the opposite gender, but to their depth of self-discovery and their enlightenment on their perspective of gender.

It also has to be countered, that if you follow what I'm writing, it doesn't follow an ideological pattern but is quite impartial.
Trans-woman. Four months of HRT as of 26/September, 2014  :) :laugh:
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Declan.

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Quote from: SilverGirl on April 17, 2014, 10:03:44 PM
i disagree that it's biological, to me it's actually much more simple, we just go with whatever pleases us, in my case i love having a feminine appearance and being referred to as the female gender, amongst other things, but i think gender is a social construct

the thing is that society created gender roles, with actions, appearance, mannerisms, etc, that are suitable for those labeled as male and female, and after someone is born they get assigned the male or female label based on whether they were born with a penis or a vagina, and that's it, the person is not allowed to choose which one they prefer (or if they prefer neither or both), and they are expected to accept it, if they don't, they get labeled as having a disorder or a mental problem for not conforming to the majority, everyone is born genderless, gender is learned

[and so on]

1. Due to being very socially awkward on top of being homeschooled, I was socially isolated for the most part (edit: I isolated myself; my parents didn't isolate me) and am still transgender, and have been since I can remember my first memories.

2. In spite of my "masculinity," I was never told I was acting inappropriately for a female, or that I didn't like the right things for a female, etc. Never, at all. I live in a very progressive area, and my personality, hobbies, interests, and attitude were all actively encouraged. My parents are not typical of their genders, so my "unusual" traits were always praised. My father was the only man in the family within several hundred miles until I was an adult. He was the only man I frequently spent time around, and I'm more stereotypically masculine than he is. On the other hand, the women I was raised around were strong, aggressive and highly independent; there was never a time in my life where I felt like I acted more "like a man" than "like a woman." I'm not transgender because of the way I act, my hobbies, my passions, etc. I'm transgender because there is a severe disconnect between my brain and my body.

3. Who on Earth would decide to be transgender when transition often means losing everything and everyone they love?

4. If you just want to be another gender, that's fine; that doesn't mean that applies to everyone else, and the things you said are nothing short of invalidating to others.

5. If the "gender roles" of men and women were completely reversed, I would still be transgender. I would just be an unusual man.
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helen2010

Declan/Terracotta

This is a great topic with many different interpretations being given for the same set of facts - until we find a "unified theory for gender formation and development" I suspect that each of us will accept as 'true' that paradigm with which we are most comfortable.

While I confess a need for a strictly biological explanation and at a pinch am comfortable with a combination of social, psychological and biological factors, like most folk, I would like a definitive answer. Given that scientists post Einstein have worked for decades in physics seeking their unified theory, I suspect that I will be waiting a much longer time for a definitive and widely accepted gender theory.

In the meantime I am getting closer to the point of acknowledging that gender exists, that it may be non binary and that it is fluid rather than fixed.   Taking this further means that my energies may be better focused on learning to be fully present, learning to authentically express myself  and to live the ever changing gender that is available to me, rather than seeking an answer as to why I am as I am.   In other words hrt has opened up a whole new world, I should go and explore, rather than fixate on why or how I have not received the accompanying maps and charts.

Safe travels

Aisla
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Declan.

I have no idea why it happens, and I'm sure it changes from person to person. I don't care why it happens or what causes it. All I know is that I'm not this way because of social conditioning, gender roles, society, etc. and it's frustrating for someone to say it is. I'm sure it is for some people, but not everyone, and that belief is the kind of belief that leads to trans-exclusionary feminism and other forms of persecution.
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helen2010

Quote from: Declan. on April 22, 2014, 06:23:46 PM
I have no idea why it happens, and I'm sure it changes from person to person. I don't care why it happens or what causes it. All I know is that I'm not this way because of social conditioning, gender roles, society, etc. and it's frustrating for someone to say it is. I'm sure it is for some people, but not everyone, and that belief is the kind of belief that leads to trans-exclusionary feminism and other forms of persecution.
Declan

Well said.

Aisla
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