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A Good Day

Started by Ciara, April 17, 2014, 08:05:04 AM

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Ciara

I don't go out dressed female. I would be recognised instantly (I live in a small town in Ireland where people have no understanding of Trans) and I would not pass as a woman. This gets me down sometimes as I would love to be myself out there. So, today I decided it was time to do something about it.
I wore all female underwear (bra, boobs.....the works), female jewellery and perfume. My outer clothes were best described as unisex - remember I was not trying to pass but the breasts, though small, were fairly obvious.
So off I went to the supermarket, did some shopping, chatted with a couple of different clerks and had a really nice time. Nobody took any notice of the little outward signs (boobs, jewellery, perfume etc.) and I felt really good.
You might think that this is no big deal but, to me it has been a big step forward. I love being a woman and it means so much to me now that I can go out as a woman while not trying to pass.
This has been a good day in my life so I thought I would share it with my friends at Susans.
As always, thank you for listening.
Ciara.
I don't have a gender issue.
I love being a girl.



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Alyssa Rae

Someday, the dream will end
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Ciara

Quote from: AlyssaRae89 on April 17, 2014, 09:12:41 AM
Way to do it girl!
Thank you AlyssaRae. This may change my life for the better.
I don't have a gender issue.
I love being a girl.



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Marcia

That fist time does feel like a big deal but after that it comes easier and easier until you don't even think about it.
-Mark & Marcia
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Kade1985

That's amazing! I'm happy for you, I know how it feels to be out there and to be yourself. It feels like real freedom.
www.youtube.com/kadeforester <--- my weekly vlog for my transition
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gennee

That's wonderful, Ciara! I know how happy  :) you must feel.


:)
Be who you are.
Make a difference by being a difference.   :)

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Ciara

Quote from: Marcia on April 17, 2014, 12:39:35 PM
That fist time does feel like a big deal but after that it comes easier and easier until you don't even think about it.
Thank you Marcia. To be honest , I was a little terrified initially but I settled down after a while. I hope that some day I too will not even think about it.
I don't have a gender issue.
I love being a girl.



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Ciara

Quote from: Kade1985 on April 17, 2014, 01:16:56 PM
That's amazing! I'm happy for you, I know how it feels to be out there and to be yourself. It feels like real freedom.
Thank you Kade. You are right, there was such a sense of freedom that I never thought possible. I'm really thrilled that it was such a successful outing.
I don't have a gender issue.
I love being a girl.



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Ciara

Quote from: gennee on April 17, 2014, 01:55:22 PM
That's wonderful, Ciara! I know how happy  :) you must feel.


:)
Thank you Gennee for your kind support. I really do feel so happy today. I'm already looking forward to my next outing.
I don't have a gender issue.
I love being a girl.



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Jessica Merriman

Congrats on having the courage to be yourself!
:eusa_clap: :eusa_clap: :eusa_clap: :eusa_clap: :eusa_clap: :icon_dance: :icon_dance: :icon_dance: :icon_dance: :icon_dance:
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Ciara

Quote from: Jessica Merriman on April 17, 2014, 03:31:17 PM
Congrats on having the courage to be yourself!
:eusa_clap: :eusa_clap: :eusa_clap: :eusa_clap: :eusa_clap: :icon_dance: :icon_dance: :icon_dance: :icon_dance: :icon_dance:
Thank you Jessica. It all just felt so right. It was my first time really being myself. I'm not sure that I could ever have done it without the support of you all at Susans over the past year.
I don't have a gender issue.
I love being a girl.



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Rachel

Congratulations!

That took a lot to do what you did.
HRT  5-28-2013
FT   11-13-2015
FFS   9-16-2016 -Spiegel
GCS 11-15-2016 - McGinn
Hair Grafts 3-20-2017 - Cooley
Voice therapy start 3-2017 - Reene Blaker
Labiaplasty 5-15-2017 - McGinn
BA 7-12-2017 - McGinn
Hair grafts 9-25-2017 Dr.Cooley
Sataloff Cricothyroid subluxation and trachea shave12-11-2017
Dr. McGinn labiaplasty, hood repair, scar removal, graph repair and bottom of  vagina finished. urethra repositioned. 4-4-2018
Dr. Sataloff Glottoplasty 5-14-2018
Dr. McGinn vaginal in office procedure 10-22-2018
Dr. McGinn vaginal revision 2 4-3-2019 Bottom of vagina closed off, fat injected into the labia and urethra repositioned.
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Ciara

Quote from: Cynthia Michelle on April 17, 2014, 05:24:42 PM
Congratulations!

That took a lot to do what you did.
Thank you Cynthia. To be honest I was terrified until I got out of the car, but I am so happy that I kept going. There is now a whole new world ahead.
I don't have a gender issue.
I love being a girl.



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